| This isn't a "oh help me get laid" post, more of a "Stop this weird girl from being weird so I can game effectively" post.
So anyway was shagging this girl on a FWB/FB thing last year, she was a bit weird. Kept bringing up other guys/texting me weird shit at 2am like "Im out clubbing, was gonna come round but found some1 else kkthxbai" and such. I just ignored it and kept playing it cool as it got me laid.
Anyway over Christmas she/me have definitely decided that we don't want to continue the whole FWB/FB thing. I did mug her off on new years but she's mugged me off plenty of times before and after we only texted once to find out how our separate new new years went and I didn't really even bother asking her how hers went.
Anyway haven't spoken/seen her for a while, she came to a random house party round mine, didn't see her then just chilled in my room with a load of people. She messaged me in the morning saying she'd left a load of stuff downstairs and could I look after it till she can come over and get it.
I rang her and told her I was going to a party she was going to tonight so I'd see her then. She randomly stated she didn't realise I was upstairs and that I should have come down. At this point im just assuming were just friends now which Im cool with as she was a bit skanky and just an odd girl overall.
Anyway so I go to the party with some friends with her bag of alcohol shit. THis party is bloody horrible, just full of pretentious hipsters who think they've see through the looking glass and such.
I saw her, gave her a hug. She went all "yeah yeah il find you later" which never happened she just kind of got with this guy but made sure I was nearby and that I could see. I went up to her just being friendly and such and this bizarre conversation happened:
Me: Heeeeeey, good to see you. I've got your stuff downstairs.
Her: What the fuck, why would you bring that here you idiot!
Me: Because its alcohol and this is a party.
Her: Urgh whatever, go and get it for me.
Me: Hell no, don't be lazy.
Her: I said fucking go and get it for me.
At this point I just rolled my eyes and went back to talking to this guy I was having a good chat with. Then she started makin little paper balls and throwing them at me.
Her: Oi, prick, go get my alcohol.
At this point the party was shit anyway so I went downstairs with my mate picked up the bag of alcohol and decided that if she was gonna be a bitch about the situation then I would just steal her shit.
Anyway on the way out, she was coming down the stairs with this guy the was randomly different.
Her: Oh thankyou so much, it was really nice seeing you.
Anyway my main problem with this is that she's at pretty much every party I go to and starting a fight with a girl isn't exactly an amazing idea but obviously being spoken down to removes the alphaness from me completely. She's coming to a party this weekend where I plan to game a couple of girls that have been a WIP and one of them is almost 100% but the whole dealphaing me/forcing DHVness on herself is just distracting from my game.
I assume its some naturtal "defense shield" as shes probably assuming Im walking around telling everyone how much of a dirty skank she is in bed, how many people shes slept with and all the weird emotional crying she did but I ain't like that. I just want to tell her "Look, we aren't sleeping with each other anymore so lets just be friends, no need for all this drama bullshit."
I suppose a warning sign when I was shagging was the whole "LOOK AT ME OTHER GUYS ARE FUCKING ME AS WELL, GET MAD!!!" sort of pathetic pandering for attention. Shame, she's a nice girl to chill with 1on1.
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