offering value vs being perceived like an attention whore



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:38 am 
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i have a doubt, let say you are a guy who offers value, i mean telling jokes, doing a magic trick, telling good stories, teach something to the girl, etc. Even though you have the mindset that you are doing it because YOU are having fun with it, have you guys somestimes come across as an attention whore?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2013 6:33 am 
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Depends on the situation. If you are just doing it and you FEEL like you are doing it unecessarily then you are being an attention whore. But if you are doing it because you want to do it and that is what you FEEL like doing then you are just doing your thing. It is easy to tell once you get more socially savvy when you are being try hard. Get out there and figure this out and then be honest with yourself afterwards if that is what you wanted to communicate.

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When I first started picking up. Yes. I imitated Mystery and tried to be a copy of him. I soon realized I was just wearing a mask, I was just doing it for the sake of getting the girls instead of enjoying myself. After that, I switched back to my personality and just honed my strengths and fixed my weakness instead. Now I'm just an upgraded version of myself with better inner game and confidence. I do things I like to do and enjoy myself, women can choose to tag along on my fun ride. If not, it's their loss. I don't feel the need to prove myself to anyone.

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