Hey dudes,

Went on a date with a bartender 7 years older than me.

She found out I was 22 and it went downhill...
Went for the kiss-DENIED!
said she was looking for a "stable relationship"

played it off well and dropped her off. Later she asked "can we go out again" to which I replied "yeah I got a fake ID that says I'm 40 we should do that"

she liked that response and set up a date for tomorrow.

I respect this girl a lot but what's a good way around this relationship thing if I'm aiming for the F-close? Older women don't play so well to PUA material IMO...

any advice is advice, thanks

tease her about the age thing if she brings it up again. Most importantly don't make it a big deal. She believes that you are still in the jock/immature phase and it is up to you to show her you mean business. Keep going on dates. She asked you out again for a reason. Maybe she is giving you a second shot. Good luck


Mr. A

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We will meet again on Saturday, but she wants a serious relationship so she doesn't become a "fling." I'll have to think of someway to get around that (got out of a long distance relationship 3 months ago) I don't know what's up with my game but I ALWAYS attract older women, I don't do well with the younger ones..

There's something attractive to me about a women that knows what she wants I suppose.

Anyway

Thanks man, that was good advice.

-Chord

Doesn't matter what the girl says she wants. Did you see that thing they did on puahate? They'd find some girl's online dating profile. She'd say she's looking for a long term relationship and wants a good guy and all this other BS. Then they'd pm her with some fake profile using a male model's pics. All he'd say is "You're hot, wanna come over and fuck?" And a lot of the girls would be like "Ok sure, you're really cute too!"

The key to getting in that bartender's pants is to just go along with whatever she is saying. Because unless she is pushing you away, then you are still getting closer to your eventual goal. Even if you already told her you don't want an LTR, tell her next time that you would be open to one as long as it's with the right girl. Then slow play her and do kino and build sexual tension, but don't beg for kisses or sex or push yourself on her. If she likes you, and you kino her right, eventually she'll move in and kiss you. Trust me on this one.

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I like that plan. Wise words.

Cheers