Hello all.

I am in a LTR since about one year. Over months, things have gone downhill. I've figured out I was/am quite AFC-ish, and the right time to change things came. Thus, I am here
Trying to improve my psychological aspects of sex and foreplay, I am trying to make sexting work properly in my LTR.

The communication has been in her native language which I'm learning, hence the reference to Google Translate:
HB All the best, my love Let this evening, which you are spending with family and friends be absolutely unforgettable!Miss :**
MeAnd?That's all?
HB this is too little for you??I miss your skin's touch,its warmth;your arms touching my skin,the kisses,the shiver that I feel when your skin reaches mine,that feeling when I want to scream because [nickname of my dick] got already deep in me...
Me And how your pussy feels when I fuck you deep?
HB Did you translate it with Google Translate??? bcs the way you wrote it is totally rude...

After the midnight, after a short freeze out
Me [nicknames to her], MERRY CHRISTMAS! )) :**

Around 2am
HBMerry Christmas, my love! :*** Sweet dreams,frozy & snowy... :**


What is your opinion? Too needy? Uncalibrated? Or rather what?

Thank you.

Sounded like a shit test to me. Disqualify, make her jump through your hoop, reward then try again.

Either that or she got turned off by your grammar mistake haha

^ No.

She literally told you in plain English. There are no head games here. She said flat out, I like sexting with you, but please put some thought into it and make it more elegant.

If that makes no sense to you, go read a few sex scenes in a romance novel. Aim for a briefer version of that.

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exactly ^. You see how she gave you a good ass detailed text? You basically shat on her by going crude...I mean really now? That is the best you can come up with lol?

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sexting DOES NOT mean = quick dirty sexts. UNLESS the girl you are texting a dirty girl and she knows it.

HB: this is too little for you??I miss your skin's touch,its warmth;your arms touching my skin,the kisses,the shiver that I feel when your skin reaches mine,that feeling when I want to scream because [nickname of my dick] got already deep in me...

This girl is a blatant romantic. a lot of people on this forum will tell you all girls want is to be talked to like a little dirty girl. This is completely false. Girls that are up for FWB/FB/ONS are up for being talked to like this. Your girlfriend on the other hand wants you to woo her. She wants to feel special NOTHING about this

Me And how your pussy feels when I fuck you deep?

will make her feel special, just another pussy on the end of your cock (this kind of thinking will get the dirty girls wet but your girlfriend will just feel "icky." One of the first rules of texting a girl is to mirror her texts. So a reply like this would have been better:

Me: Nothing about you is too little. You are the only thing that I want rubbing up against me, the thoughts I have about you have no equal. I want you more then any christmas present, unwrapping you would make my christmas wish. I'd make you scream all day long. xxx

It's also christmas, she's your girlfriend bro, make her feel special. Thats basically what PUA is all about. Make a girl feel special when she deserves it (SHE DID) and make her feel like shit when she's a complete bitch. Only talk to your girlfriend like shes a dirty slut when your fucking her.

Apart from that please please please for the love of god realise that:

YOU DO NOT NEED TO GAME YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

She has agreed to only get on your cock, to tell you all these things and wants you to learn her language. This girl proper likes you man so do not run games on her as you WILL lose her.

Also ignore Allanrnelias, his advise would be good if she wasn't your girlfriend.

Makes sense. These guys have more experience than me, so go with them lol

Guess i have to improve my relationship knowledge

There isn't much to know about relationships tbh. Personally I find relationships quite easy but that might be becuase im laid back whilst the girl gets all stressy.

But yeah most relationships fall apart because either

A) The guy tries to treat her everyday like he's just picked her up (she'll like it at first but she'll get bored)
B) The guy fucks the shit out of the girl every night (good)
C) The guy varies between fucking her and treating her special (this is how you get girls addictted) fuck them like they mean fuckall to you then randomly switch to loving them then switch back to only wanting sex. Its messes with their minds and gets them addicted because they are always on their feet.

Thank you! With calibrated and more elegant texts I've managed to build up some positive sexual tension. Waiting to see the effects soon, when meeting her again.

What language is it? If it's Russian, I could see how your text can be rude. If it is, I could help you out instead of using Google translate.

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