I have been banging this chick since august a time or two a week.

We have trouble finding privacy sometimes since we both live with our parents (early 20's)

We had talked about getting a hotel eventually for privacy and to bang, and she suggested out of state.

I booked a night at a hotel soon and surprised her with a picture of the booking. She asked me if I wanted her to pay half, and I said no you can buy me dinner when we are there. I said I know u are excited for the privacy, she said she definitely WAS.

She didn't get me anything for christmas because she thought I didn't like to give gifts, and I kinda passed it off as a gift to both of us.

She always calls me a punk, she goes "well I guess your not too much of a punk after all" (I didn't react of course)

I don't see it as something AFC, you clearly took lead. The fact you book the hotel is normal, unless it's an really fancy expensive hotel. Then you would be trying to hard. You can always tell her "It's my treat, but there's something I'd like you try for me when we get there "

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yeah it was only a holiday inn express lol and not 40 minutes away

There's nothing AFC about it. Just stay true to what you want. If you want to get a hotel room and fuck this girl, good. If she would have asked you to get it and you did, now that's stupid.
Regarding paying you also did well.

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In that case, you have nothing to worry about. Just bust out a camera when she gets there and say "Let's not waste this opportunity to be fun and adventurous "

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Well, I'm no pick up artist....but I DID stay in a Holiday Inn Express last night...

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