How to stop myself getting attached to her?



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 4:35 pm 
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I've just come out of a relationship and don't want another one because I want to be free and singlle, work on my game, build my confidence, and get laid with whoever I want.

I number closed this girl the other day and went round hers 5 days later for some sex. And then again 2 days later. She has just come out of a relationship too and doesn't want another one. She just wants to be fuck buddies. And she is smoking hot. This is literally perfect I thought to myself.

But now I've noticed that I've started getting more attached to her than I intended to. It doesn't help that when I was round hers we are holding hand, cuddling and kissing all the time like a couple. I keep checking my phone to see if she has text me. She never initiated texts, it's always me. but when I do text her she seems interested. She went home recently and I won't see her for 2 weeks and I thought I would try not texting her to see if she texts me. She hasnt for 3 days now. So being the pussy that I am I have texted her and she replied straight away showing interest (not really interested like asking questions and being flirty but not really short texts or anything).

I've had a similar thing before. I think I'm a sucker for girls that seem really intersted at first but who take a while to reply to texts, or give short texts back, or don't initiate or whatever.. It makes me go a bit crazy and think about them more and makes me start worrying about how they aren't initiating text, or replying with short texts or whatever. If she was initiating texts and showing more investment then I wouldn't be worried.

Help! Why am I doing this? She was only supposed to be a fuck buddy. I think maybe it's because she is the only girl I'm seeing SPAM (and she's hot and has nice personality) so I'm putting too much value on her. All I can think is to go into the city and get some other girls numbers, and have sex with other girls.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 4:42 pm 
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go get more girls


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I second getting more women. The abundance mentality cures all. If you have 5 fuck buddies at onces do you really think you would care as much? Probably not

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