I work with this girl who I've been boinking for months now. I am in great shape and I'm the most muscular guy at work. I always use DHV stories with other girls who work there to show her my value.

She often tells me stories about many guys there who she turns down too, even good looking ones.

Before we have sex tonight, she brings up this other kid we work with who she has brought up before. He has a GF, has glasses, is VERY skinny, red hair, ect., but he acts somewhat alpha (I am no slouch in this area either.)

She says: "We have the same sense of humor", "(his gf) got to him first if only" (half kiddingly)", "he is one of the funniest people I"ve ever met," "too bad he's a ginger" (this was at the end of the convo), and "if only you were built like him" (jokingly)

I saw this as a test and I said to her "yeah I agree, and if only you had darker skin like ____ (this girl she knows is into me)"

She goes "hahaha heyyyyy I guess I deserved that"

So what gives here? Is she trying to make me jealous/DHV or does she really wanna fuck this kid? We are sort of fuck buddies for months and we had raunchy sex after this conversation

Keep in mind she also says she is going to feel weird talking to this other girl at work who has been texting me and is interested...I'm thinking she is trying to make me feel jealous

It's what I call "noise." Girls will often say one thing but act differently. In this case, you fucked her right after her stupid nonsensical comments... So needless to say, she's still very much interested in you. And until you stop having sex, or until she distances herself from you in one way or another, there is absolutely no reason for concern, bro.

Kudos on the retort btw. Served that bitch right.

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It is chick bait. Don't fall into the trap. I did this yesterday because I was drunk and let me tell you it was a beautiful thing watching the girl power trip and feel mighty...but yeah, it is just a bump on the road and no need to address it. She wants to rattle the cage a bit.

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