Hello All

I hope you guys can help me out here. I was at a club last night and since I don't have a wing yet, I was going at it alone. I was very well dressed compared to the rest of the guys at the club. There were a few really good-looking girls there and they were all part of a group which also had a couple of guys in them. I couldn't really tell if they were the girls' boyfriends or just friends. The body language seemed very relationship-y but I could also notice that the girls were vibing me at times as well. I am a little confused about how to approach a set like that. Any help will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks
Guss

p.s: I got a little anxious during my stay at the club and I dropped a bottle of beer on the floor and really embarrassed myself. I was out of there shortly. Worst night of my life.

Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone! As one of my quotes in my sig say "Pain is the sensation of weakness leaving your body " so keep poking at your little comfort bubble and your so called worst night won't look as bad.

Anyway, if you are sarging alone you should go to the clubs a bit early and befriend every single motherfucker in there. Befriend the bouncers, the bartenders, the dj, and every other person if the club isn't packed yet. You will be creating your "fake social proof" and eventually you will be in the zone. Also, you assume fun status and then worry about whether the set is a boyfriend and girlfriend later. You can find out if they are a couple by simply asking how they know each other. Done without looking like you want some poo tang. There are only mental obstacles stopping you from approaching sets like that.

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