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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 6:03 pm 
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How do you handle you friend going for the girl that was talking to you.

Im just not trying to compete with a friend for some random chick for the night. This girl came up to me, complimented me on my hair and started flirting etc.., but my friend was right next to us listening to everything she was saying. Pretty sure he was trying to give her more attention than i was but thats what i do at first....im real chill. Not going to get all excited over just another chick but since he was giving her more attention she stop talking to me and started talking to him. A few minutes later she stop talking to him and came back to me. We were talking and shes pretty telling me what she likes to do (not sexual) but it was her way of saying lets leave and go hang out...but yea my friend was listening and as soon as she says it he's like yep i got that right now. And she's like yea i do too...I think she ended up walking away. When she does my friends like i kept trying to get her to talk to you.

What do you do when this happens, because the whole time it seemed like she really wanted me and he was cockblocking trying to take her. And he didnt get her, after this i left but seen him later alone.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 6:23 pm 
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Yeah, sounds like your friend was affraid to approach, took an easy opening, blew it (because he has no game), then tryed to make it seem like it aint no big deal...well it is...you must have known this about your so-called friend already, this can't be the first time he done this...but this don't mean he aint a friend, he could just be really selfish, and shy, so sense you can attact women and he can't, either stop going out with him or help him get better at dealing with women.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 8:09 pm 
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Typical,a friend with no game trying to be funny and involved in your set and just ends up mucking it up for both of you.

You have to be very upfront with him and tell him ahead of time that you are very serious about this and if you start talking to a girl you don't want him saying anything, other than the bare minimum. And if he does then you'll consider no longer hanging out with him. Make him realize that you are dead serious, otherwise he'll just keep fucking with you because he thinks it's funny to demolish your set.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 8:09 pm 
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Your friend serves no purpose. He neither takes away from your game nor does he add to it. Either game without him(I am not saying drop him as a friend) or just hang out with this dude when you aren't out sarging. I am not trying to be an asshole here but it does matter what kind of people you have around you. Their mindset might contaminate your mindset and it isn't healthy overall. I remember dropping these dudes with no game or selfish guys because they make me do all the work and expect to reap the rewards.

BUT, you could have actually pushed this girl onto your guy friend. He would have loved you for it and the girl would have been even more attracted to you because you are essentially disqualifying yourself as a romantic interest. It is a win-win. Who knows, the girl would have probably been on your dick the whole night and your friend would have accepted it.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:07 am 
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I have friends like that who try and steal my girls.
They always end up getting my scraps AFTER im done with them.
If I wass you do what I've done, when your looking to pick up , don't go with them.
I mainly go out with my girl m8s now who are all in their mid twenties .I suggest you do the same as the benfits are:
I never have to line up, we just walk straight in.
Guys r jealous as fuck and will BUY me drinks 2 suck up to me as im their friend.
I can drink all the girls drinks coz they cnt keep going all night.
THey won't steal your girls.
You actually look like a nice guy coz your hanging with so many girls and you are more than happy to disprove any gay theories.
If ur having a really shit night, depending on the dynamics of ur relationship, you can just hook up with them.

I used to go out with guys who had no game. Ditchingthem for girls srsly doubled my productivity before getting into game.
I will only ever wing now with a guy whos at least as good as myself.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:09 am 
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lot of good advice buddy.


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