So I'll probably be having sex tonight, and woops it's my first time but it's ok since I'm still young enough for that not to be embarrassing. This wouldn't even be a possibility without you guys so thanks!

Any last minute tips and I'll remind you I need these in a hurry.

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Make sure to use a condom.


There's really no guide to sex...just do what feels good and make sure you don't stick it in the wrong hole!

Here's one tip.

Most guys arent prepared for how good sex feels. Its not like wanking - you will have completely different limits for how hard you can go before you 'tip over the edge'. This is why so many people say their first time was really short lived haha.

Just keep this in mind when things get going, otherwise you might get a rep for not lasting long.

Also, just relax and be in the moment - sex isnt hard, most people have watched enough porn to know the basics of what to do.

Good luck buddy - the whole pick up community is behind you tonight - metaphorically speaking.

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ha ha ha ha sorry my dirty mind.. just imagine him in doggy style and whole PUA community standing behind him.

anyways here is the best tip don't forget clitoris.... and dont let the pussy smell let you down.....

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Shine

Please update this thread and tell us what losing your virginity was like, lolz.

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It might be too early for you, but consider giving Sex God Method a read.

don't think about performing well, just think about giving her an experience to remember.

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Rain check! Sorry for all the suspense but it's going to be tomorrow night. Sorry guys... my balls are seriously going to drop off.

A question though, should I jerk off or not? I haven't in about a week so is there a chance that "excess buildup" will shorten things. However Jerking off in the past has killed my game so I don't really want to chance it

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When you're actually having sex, remember that there are two areas that will actually get a woman to orgasm. Just following the program:
Undress you
Undress her
Insert penis into vagina
Remove penis from vagina

The rest will follow naturally

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Haha Heywood! Simplistically accurate...

Good luck to you Bro, just do your thing and everything will work itself out.


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I don't think you should jerk off first. You're pretty young, right? If it's your first time (and you're sober) it's almost expected that you'll finish quickly. I think it's much more satisfying to a woman seeing you so excited, then blast your first load all over her. Building up tension for a week will do that, especially if when you know you're going to come you hold back as long as possible. Takes PC muscle control. If you haven't practiced, don't bother now.

Ten minutes later.... return for round two, and really rock her world.

Also, I figured you're setting aside a good amount of time for. Don't pressure it, or be like "WE MUST HAVE TEH SEX NAO" just foreplay and let it go naturally. Don't overthink this shit. Don't worry about giving her "mind blowing orgasms". Just enjoy yourself. Most people lose their virginity a long time before they find PUA by "getting lucky". My first time was with a drunk, ugly college girl I had just met, she gave me a great 18th birthday present For the record, we went at it at least 3 times that night. Having a whole night to make up for "shortcomings" is really a plus.

I guess if you want some literature with good foreplay guidelines then Vin DeCarlo's Escalation Ladder is worth reading, it's a quick read as well.

I wouldn't call myself "Fairly young" I'm 19. I'm not insecure about being so old (I went to an all boys school run by priests so the alternative to virginity is way worse) I've just started college in September and I think the rate at which I've adapted to life in the real world is pretty good. However it may mean I am expected to have some kind of ability, I'm not sure if she's a virgin but I sure as hell haven't told her I am. We will certainly have the whole night so I'm not scared of blowing my load too quick. Number 2 will be much better for it!

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What is with all the pressure...just enjoy yourself. Shit, if this is going to be your first time don't be like most guys and worry about performing like a porn star. Enjoy the first experience like it will be your last, you always remember your first so make sure it is memorable for you. You might learn a few things while doing the deed that none of us can really describe to you here. If you screw up, laugh it off as humorous. Then go at it again, usually the girl will be down with a little foreplay as an incentive. That is all you need to know.

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Ok, fuck this! I'll report back to all of you when the deed is done!!

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I'm back, let me first clear a couple of things up. From my earlier posts I think I gave you the impression that sex was scheduled for me as if me and the had made an appointment, well, that wasn't the case. It was just confidence on my part that I would pull this girl. It's lucky then that I did!!

I started off by going to her house and kissing her as soon as she answered the door, she was having a mini house party so I spend most of the time there joking with her friends but every time I got a moment alone with her we would kiss again. All in all pretty good at the house. There was some pretty heavy drinking, I was the only guy so they tried to keep up with me, disastrously. I actually had to carry her drunk friend over my shoulder (It was either that or let them both go home!!). Once we got to the club we just left the friend to her own devices and found a couch, we were only there for about 10 minutes before I asked her to come home with me, she said maybe so I just kissed her again until she said yes.

It took us about 20 minutes to get back to my house (longest 20 minutes of my life!). Once we were there we went straight to my room and started to undress each other. Once we were both naked and on the bed she sidelined me with this: "I'm on my period"

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!

I was pissed off so I just flicked my very very erect penis and said "what the hell am I going to do with this?"
She had her solutions, first she tried a handjob (she didn't know what the hell she was doing) then she gave me some head (she didn't know what the hell she was doing then either). She tried just sitting on top of me and grinding but she was still wearing this lacey underwear. I've never had anyone sandpaper my cock but I imagine that's what it would feel like. In the end I just pushed her off, we continued kissing but I was clearly annoyed. Then she just said "Beast, fuck me." Needless to say the "period" excuse will never work on me again because there was nothing wrong. After that we had sex.

The condom was another problem. It was really tight, painfully tight. There must be different sizes or something or else I give up on sex. I actually had problems telling when I was inside her because there was always a feeling of tension on my cock. We had sex anyway, first missionary then her on top but then back to missionary. I don't know if it was the alcohol in my system but I didn't have any problems with coming early, we were going for ages and she was clearly enjoying it (more than me). All I wanted to do was take the condom off so after a few minutes I just picked up the pace, I really had to lean into it to get it done. After that we kissed again and she snuggled up to me she said.

Her: "I wish I could see your face."
Me: "I'm smiling."
Her: "How does it feel?"
Me: "What?"
Her: "You just took my virginity."
Me: "Pretty good, it was better than a kick in the head."
We both laughed.

I am happy that I had a virgin for my first time but god I never want to fuck a virgin again. She said she didn't believe I was a virgin, which I suppose makes sense. I at least pretended to know what I was doing. I will have sex with her again though (we agreed to be exclusive) and it can only go up hill from here. We'll probably have sex again tomorrow night and I plan to me much tougher on what I want her to do.

Anyway, she pretty much fell asleep straight away but I was still awake thinking. I didn't really feel any different to how I felt before. I had expected the heavens to open, a chorus of angels to erupt into song and God himself to descend on a chariot of fire just to shake my hand. But that's not what happened. I just felt a little tired, a little satisfied and a little annoyed. The first thing I did was get up and smoke a cigar that I had been saving. What I did next may sound weird, I cleaned my room. It was a mess and I just figured she'll wake up and see that I live like a pig, I guess everyone just has there different ways of dealing with the shock of a life changing event. At about 4.30 her drunk friend called again, it turns out she was supposed to stay at my girl's house that night and she was locked out. We both got up and I walked her home, I kissed her goodnight and that was it. I saw her the next morning and we spent about 2 hours together. She was pretty affectionate with me and I was happy with that at least, she is a very special girl.

So, what do you guys think? how does that measure up to any of your own experiences? did I do good, bad? Should I not have been so annoyed? Well anyway, virginity is gone and I can at least look forward to more sex in the future.

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