Ok so I have what i is a very new problem for me

I'm can't sex close with this girl I've been kind of seeing :S

She says she doesnt want to have sex and that she doesnt do that kind of thing (though shes not a virgin, had 1 partner and they banged) so i know if i play my cards right i can get it.

she some type of christian and says she feels guilty doing that kind of thing though she loves kissing and making out and lets me play with her tits and body (though im not allowed to finger her :evil: except one time after a few drinks)

any strategy i should try and implement? shes only 20 im 21...

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They'll have sex... ALL girls want the dick.

I've had sex with christian girls, mormon girls... they pretend to be all christ like, then I bang them. The next day they'll post shit on facebook like "I love god so much! Without him I would be lost."

Don't be afraid to just whip your cock out.

not very helpful dude . . .

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Yeah, again, this is one of those "community" things I don't terribly like.

Look, I'm Christian, I was raised in a Catholic country, blah blah blah. But I'm not some bible basher personally. I was raised with certain beliefs and values but I don't go around talking about it or pushing it on others or being ridiculously conservative about everything. I'm pretty liberal, live and let live kinda guy.

I'm not gonna turn this into a religious debate but here is the thing...

Community teaches some crap like the "7 hour rule", "All girls want it".... blah blah.

Look, everyone is different. Some girls will suck you off in the bathroom or a club. Some girls want to date you 3-4 times, some girls want to be in a relationship first, some girls want to be married first. So you can't lump every girl into the same category and blame it on your game.

I've slept with girls on the first night. I also know girls who "want it" but guess what? They were married at 21. Because they wanted to be virgins before marriage. I doesn't mean they didn't want sex but weren't willing to give it up without the guy being in it for the long run. Do I agree with that personally? Not my place to say or judge.

She sounds like the relationship type. She's not gonna want to sleep with you until she knows your gonna stick around and "kinda hanging out" doesn't cut it for her. So for both of your sake... if you're interested in this girl, pursue it.
If you just want to bang her, then you'll be leading her on in doing so and not leaving her in a good way when you decide to split. So I'd move on and find the type of girl you're looking for.

Sorry if that sounds harsh but it's my view. Not every girl is the same, not every girl is a preprogrammed robot or rpg game where you need to unlock the right sequence to preceed to the next step. This is real life.

Cue flaming...

Above is almost right, but not quite. I do not believe the no sex until marriage girl exists. I just don't. Not unless she demands marriage within three months or it's over. No woman can thwart sex from a guy who's persistent for months on end. No matter how pious she is.

That said, she easily COULD keep you at bay for at least more than a month. Go for oral first. Once she's had your dick in one hole, it makes getting into another a lot easier.

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There is no such thing. Every girl loves sex. You just have to suck her into your sexual frame and create enough attraction and comfort to avoid LMR. In my experiences, religious girls are usually freaks in bed.

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The fact of the matter is everyone in the world in a sexual being whether they will admit it or not. I firmly believe that every woman has a tipping point of no return where what they say and what they do are completely different. What you have to remember is that no matter what she says she still is a female with those same desires as everyone else, she may just have suppressed them or feel that God will judge her if she puts out.

What you need to do is convince her that pleasure is not a sin and in fact God wants us to be happy. If the right words are said with the correct actions put into place she will have sex with you. If done correctly she will crave you and beg for you to continue to pleasure her. Done wrong and that one night of sex will turn into a life long guilt trip from God and her religion.

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Seriously? SERIOUSLY?

You think you can "game" a girl to drop a lifetime of religious and moral beliefs just so you get get a quick lay?

Ok, THIS is where game gets creepy. Dude... There are girls on both extremes and everywhere in between. If you feel comfortable sleeping with a girl using the above methods go ahead... but it's really not a good way to go about things IMO.

If you just want a lay report, meet a girl who's more open to sex with someone she's just met.