Alright gentlemen, so I scored a date. Now I know this girl a little bit -I'm familiar enough with her to be able to spot her little shit tests. I'm getting better at responding to these and knocking through them. However, I don't know what to do about this potential scenario...
So we're going to this hookah lounge, and I know she mentioned that they have bellydancing there tomorrow nice and that she wanted to go at a time to see that if we were going to that particular location. I said sure, why not -aside from the girl herself being cute it's actually quite entertaining. Anyways, I'm thinking she might be observing how I'm observing the bellydancer doing her thing. If she asks me any questions about the girl; if I think she's cute or anything like that, how should I respond?

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Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

you remain true to your masculinity, let her know you find other women attractive. Nothing screams approval seeking when you say things she wants to hear in order to stay on her good side. If you find the dancer is cute then just say yeah she is cute. End of story/change subject, possibly to the history of bellydancing? Or something related to the tradition...

P.S. Enjoy yourself but do not be mesmerized by the dance like a kid in a candy store. Remember you aren't won over that easily

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You can ask her if she thinks she can do better, then later have her show you.