or I just run into some really weird girls, so this girl class with which is at the worst an 8.5/10, I had class with her before, I knew she had a boyfriend she lived with but we still hung out and got food, went to the beach together, etc despite that, and she always felt guilty doing it,like she would say yes to hanging out one second then and make an excuse not to, and vice versa. So when class ended,I asked her to hang out 3-4 more times and twice she agreed but then backed out the last minute when we didn't have class. I stopped texting her, and now 3 months later she texts me "hey how have you been"

we going on a little small talk conversation about school, how each of us were doing etc..

so then i go

Me : what made you text me out of the blue though..i figured you have forgot about me and shit" (Yes, I forgot to write "you would have forgot about me"
Her : No why? I just wanted to see how you were doing
Me: I'm joking lol, we gotta catch up one of these days
her : lol yeah, I never see you around campus
me: I know..we can get coffee or something like that when the weather clears up a bit lol, what's your schedule like?

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And that went ignored, Was there something wrong with my game here? I don't think anything I said wasn't smooth, and the very least not awkward. I don't see why she'd hit me up out of the blue just "to see how I'm doing" considering we we never great friends or anything, we just hung out like three times so it's not like she was checking up on an old good friend, you know?

Well the first mistake is being defensive in the reply to hey how have you been. You did not have to act all butthurt and reply in the manner that you did. It would have went smoother is you teased her for being M.I.A. and you could have probably went somewhere with that.

Also you jumped at the meet up too early..should have had some small talk before that. You guys have not seen each other for months. It isn't a bad situation but something to think about.

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Totally agree with Mr. Assertive on this one. Couldn't have said it any better.

when I was saying that line, I didn't think I'd come off that way, you know? that's why I added a "lmao" to it. And I didn't add the "forgot about me" until like mid conversation, we small talked a bit, I just didn't add it so I didn't bore you guys to death lol.

I was debating how I should of done it because I thought about how I would come off, and went with it anyway. Think I went about it absolutely horribly? Or just could have been slightly better/smoother?

Men ACT; Women REACT.

Is the boyfriend still in the picture?
If so then i don't really see how you could've saved this, doesn't matter how smooth your game was.
1.She has a Boyfriend.
2.She fuckin lives with the dude.
3.You two haven't really hung out in months.
4.Even when you did hung out you didn't really got to game her. (you test for compliance she objects)
5.She's flaked numerous times (guilt).
6.She hasn't really gave you any idea that she's willing to cheat on her BF.

So considering all these factors, you could've ran James Bond game she still wouldn't have cave in.

But let's say the BF is out of the picture, (which i doubt) ^Then Mr.A is spot on.

But my honest opinion is, this girl likes you, and to some extend enjoyed the attention. So when you stopped messaging her she craved that attention. But is scared to go out with you because she's afraid she might cheat on her BF with you.

D.P

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Nothing says desperation and neediness like a girl contacting you out of the blue and within 60 seconds you are trying to get her to hang out with you.

If instead of inviting her to Starbucks, you had told her that you have a new girlfriend, you'd already be fucking her by now.

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This how I view it as well. I don't think I was being too aggressive small talking her a bit, and then saying we should meet up and get coffee or something casual like that. Especially since she's the one who initiated the conversation, and It's not like we were really good friends or something like that.

Just strange to me that she completely ignored my text about getting coffee and asking her what her class schedule is like, which I don't think is a weird question in the least bit. I like to get different viewpoints from people because we all see things differently, thank you all.

but definitely don't bother contacting her anymore right? lost cause?