Ok so Ive been reading this forum for a while, and let me first say there is some absolute GOLD on this page. This forum has helped me tremendously with multiple aspects of my life.
However, I just decided to make an account because I have a problem. There is this girl who I am absolutly crazy about. Like when im with her everything just feels right and I really think deep down she feels the same. She is the first girl who I have ever actually considered that she could be the girl who I marry (Im 19 btw). We are good friends but she has a boyfriend, but she just told me that they are on a break. I want a girlfriend but I know the timing isnt right for me to be with her. I want to date other girls but its hard because all I can think about it her, and Im afraid I wont be able to feel as strongly for another girl as I do for her. Is it healthy for me to feel this way? Should I make an effort to try an stop feeling so strongly about her? Should I just suck it up and go date other girls? Please help! Any advice greatly appreciated! Thanks!

Onenittis. Go game other girls, you're a kid for god's sake go experience the world.

Usually all this "she is the one crap" comes from the scarcity mentality. Have you even played the field yet? Date many and then have like a top five or something and then come back here moan about that. You are 19 so I doubt you have had much experience.

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Im been trying to use some techniques through this site. Ive gotten with a decent amount of girls so far this year and this material has definetly helped me. Im super shy though so its pretty hard for me to approach. Usually one of my friends opens the set. Definetly something I need to improve on. Its funny because im most confident when Im around this girl, seems like it would be the opposite.