This chick told me "You are soo hot" during sex, I asked her who owned her and she said u do, and it feels so good, ect.

I have not been able to get her to come through fingering or oral, and she says she has to have intercourse for it, though she is vague. I spend ALOT of time in foreplay with her.

So I fuck her fast and shallow, fast and deep, say a few dirty things in her ear, only stop occasionally doing the start/stop method ect.......even when I tell her to play with herself when I fuck her, she plays with my balls and not herself

so she tells me she wants me to come, I come, and after sex I try fingering her. She stops me and goes "I'm tired, I'm satisfied with that, I don't have the stamina you do"


Should I believe her? She initiates plans and shows tons of interest futuring me and such.

She eventually always stops me after like 10 min of fingering despite moaning and saying my name and it feels so good, and squirms like crazy with oral.

Is she afraid to come around me? I can't make her go! Keep in mind I have made my ex's come just by fingering them and having them play with themselves.


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It's quite annoying. I ask her how she has come in the past and she said in a roundabout way during intercourse, I ask her position and she doesnt really say when I ask on top, on bottom, ect...I kinda just get a half ass "yeahh"

I don't see why you shouldn't believe her. A girl I was with used to experience discomfort if I touched her clitoris after orgasm or during extremely heightened sexual arousal and I also went out with a girl who told me that sometimes oral sex was just too much for her.

All women are different, as long as you're getting some and she isn't in any pain. Whats the relationship between the two of you? You're mature grown ups. Communication is key to having a great sexual relationship with someone, so if it concerns you, try talking to her about it.

we've been dating for like less then 3 months, nothing serious she would really have no reason to deceive me

I wouldn't push trying to find out why. She's told she's having fun and she's coming back for more so your not doing anything wrong. Every girl is different anyway.

I've had girls that scratch the shit out of my back, i've had girls that just lie there (boring) I've had girls that scream their lungs out, I've had girls that make weird faces.

What is there to deceive anyway? shes fucking you...

I remember you. You made a similar thread last week. Get it into your head that this girl is enjoying herself. You are doing your job. Why are you looking for the validation of her having some crazy orgasm just to fulfill your ego. Enjoy your time together; it seems like you make this into a work session. Just keep at it and eventually you will find her triggers or you can ASK her what she likes so she feels even more engaged in her sex life than she already is...Don't fuck up.

And stop basing your current relationship off of past experiences, you won't always have the answers, accept it and adapt. Just treat this as a new learning experience.

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