recently I went out with my friend and these two girls.. this is my first time meeting them.. we went straight for a movie.. the girl that I wanted to game ended up sitting next to me.. flirted with her a lil bit throughout the movie.. stuff like me telling her a joke and she was laughing and nudging me with her elbows.. however, things got quite awkward after that.. we went for a dinner and I was pretty quiet the whole time.. I find my friend not doing a good job in bridging the connection (although he's only known this girl for a few weeks) .. ive been in such situations before and was quite comfortable in them.. this time I felt kinda uncomfortable.. one reason being I'm not sure if my friend wanted to game this girl and another being me not interested in the friend they brought.. I know this is a bad mindset to have.. third being I feel as if he's not doing enough or maybe it's an ego prob and such..

my friend has made it clear that hes not gaming this girl.. now my predicament is that I wanna know this girl but I don't use fb or any stuff like that.. my friend offers to give me her number but only after telling her.. do you guys think it's okay this way? I also need some advice on how to improve in such situations. I mean if I'm the one bringing my friend to meet girls.. I'm very confident in my abilities to gel people together.. Please offer me some more advice on how to improve..

I think you need to get out of your shell and start acting like a fucking man. Come on bro you were flirting the entire time in the movie because you were in a quiter setting, no one else was really watching you.

(I think this is the psychological aspect of why you werent talking to her during the date)

Once you were in a setting where other people could see if you were flirting or what not, you got scared, and hid in your shell. This is fucking bad! How can you show confidence, that you are a man, if you can't openly express your feelings.

You need to become more confident with who you are, and your status quo, than other people will gladly want to join your presence. Get her fucking number, ask her yourself. Getting a number should not be the end goal/reward, it should just be another step to get to the end goal.


Once you stop celebrating the number you wont think of it as taboo or what not. I literally ask for numbers like a pedophile asks a kid if he wants candy, its just part of the job.

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