So I went to happy hour with this HB8 whom I gamed online out of the spur of the moment because I was bored from studying for my MCAT. Everything went great, she laughed alot, open body language, her entire body including her feet were pointed toward me. She leaned forward to talk to me as I leaned back against the chair, very receptive when I kino her thigh, played with her hair and touching her face. She was playing with her hair and wrapped them around her fingers the whole time while keeping heavy eye contacts with me. We talked about how fun it is to have sex in public and joked about her being a soccer mom. I told her she is a cute soccer mom, I'd do her. She blushed and laughed while staring into my eyes. The weird thing is when I kino her hand and caress them, she gently took her hand away. Later on, while we were walking, I hold her hand and she hold my back for like 10 sec then let go. She also dodged it when I tried to kiss-close. Also when I tried to have her sit down to the bench next to me, she wouldn't.

I'm getting mixed signals from this girl. From my fair amount of experiences with picking up, she was giving me a lot of IOIs and totally into me. However, she wouldn't let me escalate. It might be the fact that she's a single mom or it's our first date. But I'll never know. I'm thinking about just play it lowkey and game other girls to see how she would react or initiate later.

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Sounds to me like she's interested and on some level wants escalation but has a block to it. Sounds to me most likely like she's involved with someone else but wants to escalate with you but doesn't want to cheat.

after the first time smoothly say something like " oohh I am sorry for making you feel uncomfortable I will try not to do that again" then don't make any advances and act as if you not thinking about it any more...but keep talking to her and having fun like its no big thing..trust me wait for her to make a move..she will that night and if she doesn't you will have her number..and she will later

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That's what I did. I didn't let it faze and continued to game her like normal. And Chvyn might be right, she might be involved with this guy at her work or has a mental ASD block somewhere. I'm gonna just keep teasing her until she gives in and jumps me

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Updating....

I texted her couple hours earlier which is about 2 days ever since our happy hour last time. I teased her about the fact she has to use a chopticks cheat on the date.

"I told my mom about your silly chopsticks cheat and she said you're adorable and that I should call you "

No reply so far. Normally she responds quick within 10-15 minutes. I think it's a lost cause but still wonder what went wrong. My game was pretty good, I think she is having a bit of issue somewhere along the line.

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You seem self-aware and you know your stuff. Your text to re-initiate was also well-phrased, so I don't think it's you.

You know not to text her anything more because she hasn't responded to the last text. I don't have to tell you that. But maybe when you DO see her again, you could put it out there, "Hey, why're you resisting what you seem to want so badly?"

My guess is there's somebody else and it's got her confused. You mentioned she's a soccer mom. Is she newly divorced? Was she ever married?

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That I'm not sure, I didn't ask but her online profile said single. And she made a joke about trying to get her hands on all the med student doing residences in the hospital she works at. I don't think I'll run into her somewhere any soon, but I probably will send her one of those holiday or humorous mass text once in a while.

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where do you make that avatar

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