Hello. I am 18 years old and last weekend I slept with this 24 year old girl, who has 1 and a half year old baby. She was stunning, a hb9 and we definately planned to see eachother some time again (for sex). She gave me feeling like she wants to bang madly and I wouldn't mind having a good looking fuck buddy. She seemed to be into that aswell, but she keeps clicking me on fb or texting me almost everyday and I do not want to have any other relationship with this chick but straight sex, no other stuff. So now I'm not sure is she really that horny or wants to get more serious? Because having a 24 year old mother as a girlfriend at my age, and just before i start my college is the last thing that I want to do. How should I handle this and tell her i just want her to be a bang without coming off as rude?

NVM, just talked to her, told her I'm not the kind of guy that texts, but will tell her when i got time if that works for her. She was more than happy to agree

I had a 24 year old when I was 17 and to me at the time it felt strange and my friends were teasing me a lot.

I dumped her but it was a mistake as she wanted simply pleasure and she could have taught me all that she knew.

Age is nothing.

Honestly, just tell her what she wants to hear. If you think she's looking for a boyfriend, play that up. Tell her you're more a "one chick" kind of guy. Act like you don't mind at all that she has a kid, but don't even pretend to be a daddy to it. The truth is that it likely wasn't going to work out longterm anyways, so at least bust a couple off with her before the inevitable comes about. Don't let her get hung up on age or relationship desires before you guys bone. She can dwell on all that lame crap after the dust settles from your fuck fest.

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I'm sorry your warped mind thinks this way...

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Hi, Im 22 and dating quite a bit younger guy. It sound like she may be getting rather attached if she is checking up on you and things.

I vote you be honest with her about what you want and your plans and if she can't handle that let her go.

The best way to not come off as rude is to completely explain yourself, pretty much what you said here, you're just starting college, You aren't ready live the life of a dad and stuff, you like her, you like the sex. You could even say you don't wanna hurt the kid by being around as a fwb and making any emotional attachments is a bad idea. Strictly sex.

You could "tell her what she wants to hear." And it will probably work for what you want, but it's pretty skeezy.

The point is that being honest isn't going to get you the results you want, so why bother? Women condition us to lie because they punish us for telling them the truth. They bring it on themselves. Also, she probably wants a FB but just doesn't want to feel like a slutty single mom by admitting it. So she's giving IOIs one minute, then ASD the next to try to resolve the cognitive dissonance in her own mind. This of course leaves you, the man, to absorb the brunt of her emotional confusion. It's sad that it has to be that way, but that's her problem, not yours.

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I just tell them: i'm not looking for a relationship. so far all the girls acted normally to that. Come on, you are youmg, enjoy sex with multiple women while you still can.

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First of all thanks for all the replys, i found them really helpful.

Well i get teased by my friends aswell, but I honestly don't give a fuck, they are just jealous so that's not a problem at all. Some jokes are rather funny haha


To the point:

I do not want to give her false hopes for anything because I'm not that kind of person. So like I said, I told her yesterday I do not want to text or anything but I'll hit her up when the opportunity arises and I have time (I think she understood that as when I want to have sex with her, because she keeps trying to arrange to meet at her or my place). And her reply was something like: I see... Okey works for me:))) have fun :* I've already told her I'm not getting serious and I just wanna have fun at this age. I got a feeling like it was ages ago she had a good sex and just wants to enjoy herself. And if i get the sense that she wants to create a deeper bond or more serious relatinship I'll tell her I'm not the guy for that, no hard feelings.

What do you guys think?