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PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2012 8:30 pm 
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Does anyone have any advice on what to say to girls on dating sites or what to say on your profile?
I messaged about 20 girls on Okcupid and didn't get 1 reply a couple of weeks ago.

Seems like any girls who are attractive just won't reply on those sites unless you've got male model looks or are rich.


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I hate okcupid pof is better
But you are right ifyou have model looks or are a big guy then the girls will flock too you

Reason why because they have so many men on there who wont approach in real life messaging them a average hb 6-7 gets around 200 messages a day so the girls have alot of choice even when you do get talking to them one wrong move an poof there gone.

Go on online dating forum on here an there some good opening messages that increase your chances of them talking too you but i wouldnt hold your breath much better in the real world although i enjoy dating websites just for the fun of it when your skint an can not afford to go out.
Also its full of crazy girls where a hb 7 becomes a hb 10 online

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Does anyone have any advice on what to say to girls on dating sites or what to say on your profile?
I messaged about 20 girls on Okcupid and didn't get 1 reply a couple of weeks ago.

Seems like any girls who are attractive just won't reply on those sites unless you've got male model looks or are rich.
Okcupid is strictly for platonic or serious women from my experience. If you're looking for a date that might lead to something serious, use okcupid. The women on there are high quality and more sophisticated, but aware that you will have to spend more time to build rapport and comfort.

POF is a much better site for casual dating or SNL, I have no idea why. Out of 17 women I slept with ever since I started doing online gaming, like 11 of them were from POF, just 2-3 from OKC and the rest were from other sites.

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If you're looking for a date that might lead to something serious, use okcupid.
I met the girl who is now my GF on OKCupid. And got several other hookups, at least one of which could have become serious.
The website works. But, yes, you need to work more on your profile and the interaction compared to POF.

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Gks teach me lol id love to be good at online game but i struggle seems easier in person 11 of pof wow

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Gks teach me lol id love to be good at online game but i struggle seems easier in person 11 of pof wow
I'm not doing so great recently after moving to a new town and changing my frame. I have no problem getting their numbers off the sites but the over confident frame and too sexual aren't doing me any good at the moment. I can get them to engage sexual topics easily, they even sent me pictures and some video of them being fucked by their exes. But when I actually pushed things through to meet up, they flaked. The amount of flakes has been skyrocketed the last 2 weeks.

So I'm in the middle of reevaluate and restructure my online game. To be honest, I have no idea what to tell you right now among all the confusions I'm having right now.

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Go on online dating forum on here an there some good opening messages that increase your chances of them talking too you but i wouldnt hold your breath much
I can't see an online dating forum on here.
Where is that?


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The online dating section here is literally ass, and doesn't teach the proper way.

I've been doing this for two years, 1 year of trying things out, and 1 year of actually getting results/mastering.

Here's a general outline for POF/OKCupid. Make a good profile, that shows your quirky side. Have GOOD pictures. You don't need to be a male model to get hot chicks, just have a good pic.

Make up your own opener, MASS MESSAGE IT to every girl you think is cute.

After they respond, go for the number ASAP. I usually go for the number within my next message after they respond. Think about it, hundreds of chodes are dicking around, messaging her. You need to stand out, GET HER on the phone.

Once you have her number, DON'T FUCKING DICK AROUND. GO FOR THE MEETUP ASAP.

I usually go for the meetup that same day if convenient or the next day.

Girls online are there to fuck.


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OK. I found the online forum now.
How many of the girls u message can you get to meet you?


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I found online pickup quite easy and it's a great resource for getting dates and learning how to act on them. When I'm single I've no difficulty in arranging 2 dates a week with girls from POF. Then it's just a numbers game to how many times you f close.

I met my last 3 girlfriends online and they all messaged me first.

There is a lot of advice on here that did not work for me online. Many believe in being cocky/arrogant online but I don't think that works.

The first and most important thing you need to achieve is COMFORT. Always maintaing a fun, interesting, busy and jokey vibe but do not come across as a tryhard or an arrogant prick.

Get them to qualify themselves

It's easy to get a number quick but I always hold off and wait until the conversation is near it's peak then number close. This makes them think that they are winning you over after them qualifying themselves to you.

It's important to pay attention to all details of their profile so as you can know what strategy to take. Even someone saying very little on their profile can speak volumes.

Make your profile fun, interesting and convey a successful life. Don't be afraid to state what your not looking for but do it in a nice way so as to not sound like a prick! Then you will get girls messaging you first!

I'm in a relationship (about a month) but I just checked my profile and I'd over 100 new messages from girls!


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I hate okcupid pof is better
But you are right ifyou have model looks or are a big guy then the girls will flock too you

Reason why because they have so many men on there who wont approach in real life messaging them a average hb 6-7 gets around 200 messages a day so the girls have alot of choice even when you do get talking to them one wrong move an poof there gone.

Go on online dating forum on here an there some good opening messages that increase your chances of them talking too you but i wouldnt hold your breath much better in the real world although i enjoy dating websites just for the fun of it when your skint an can not afford to go out.
Also its full of crazy girls where a hb 7 becomes a hb 10 online
It has absolutely nothing to do with this, that's just your limiting belief you're projecting. Women on there get inundated with messages, they tend to weed out the ones that sound typical "Hey what's up?" "you're cute" etc. I have female friends who wont consider messaging a guy, even if they find him attractive, based solely on his message. Remember, women like a confidant guy, if you come across as needy, boring/typical your chances of getting a response are next to nil.


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I found online pickup quite easy and it's a great resource for getting dates and learning how to act on them. When I'm single I've no difficulty in arranging 2 dates a week with girls from POF. Then it's just a numbers game to how many times you f close.

I met my last 3 girlfriends online and they all messaged me first.
Would you mind posting a link to your POF profile for interest?
I'm guessing you must have movie star looks because no girls have ever messaged me on that site and I don't think I'm that bad looking.


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Gks teach me lol id love to be good at online game but i struggle seems easier in person 11 of pof wow
I'm not doing so great recently after moving to a new town and changing my frame. I have no problem getting their numbers off the sites but the over confident frame and too sexual aren't doing me any good at the moment. I can get them to engage sexual topics easily, they even sent me pictures and some video of them being fucked by their exes. But when I actually pushed things through to meet up, they flaked. The amount of flakes has been skyrocketed the last 2 weeks.

So I'm in the middle of reevaluate and restructure my online game. To be honest, I have no idea what to tell you right now among all the confusions I'm having right now.
It's not what you're doing. It's the area you live in. Different areas have different types of woman. I can't even begin to explain what this means, if you want a detailed explanation PM me but long story short I live in one area (woman are a lot easier), move to another area (woman begin to be much more receptive).


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