I've been on like 8 dates with this HB 8.5. We have been alone three times.

One time, people were at my house and we made out and 2nd base.

Second time we did everything but sex.

Third time, we did everything but sex but I finished (hand/bj). I went to eat her out, but she said "I might be on my period soon so I don't want to give you any surprises" (i had done this once before with her.

We were having a candid conversation, and she made the comment "you seem to be pretty happy just by yourself here too...", just kidding. I made the comment about her being on her period or whatever, and she was like I'm not on it yet.

But then I made a comment about how it takes me awhile to get worked up, but I last long...and she goes "well we'll have to see about that..." in a sexy tone


She wants to make plans with me this weekend too

I just want to know if sounds likely in my situation to kill attraction within the early month or two of dating if you haven't banged yet. It shows I am not desperate for sex at the very least, and she is still giving big IOIs

8 dates and you haven't fucked her? That's the problem. Don't listen to women craps about not having sex on the first couple dates. If you turn them on enough, they would fuck you in the first 20 minutes of the date.

I usually f-closed on 2nd or 3rd date. Waiting too long would make all the desires and attraction fade. Don't think. KEEP ESCALATING. Try again and again unless she flat you says no with a mean face.

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Lots of truth. My girlfriend and I spent the night together on the first date. We did everything but actual banging (she was on her period, otherwise it was pretty obvious to both of us that we would have fucked like crazy). That was quickly remedied a few days later.
She still tells me how she thinks it's good not to rush into sex and it makes sense to take physical intimacy slowly... funny, ain't it?

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It all depends on the reason she believes you haven't banged her. If she thinks you are too chicken to make a move, then it will kill her attraction instantly. If you show no insecurity or apologies for moving slow and she just believes you are not ready, then it won't kill her attraction. Sometimes it will make her more attracted to you.

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