| you don't own her, think for a second, she's fucking another guy besides you that she is married to, does this make you better then him?, nope, it's likely in her mind she feels more connected to him, then to you, now, also, consider this, she is fucking another guy she is married to as well as you, who's to say she isn't fucking other guys besides to two of you, does this somehow make this possible 3rd+ party better/lesser then you or the husband? nope, this just makes her promiscuous, if you have never met this guy how do you even know he is a ''bitch'', there are several reasons this lady could be cheating that have absolutely no relation to some sort of hypergamous intent, women are pretty well known for placating guys to protect their egos, it's why you're more likely to get a flaky number then a no if you have good intentions, she says a bunch of shit to make you feel like a big man, and it is guarenteed she does the same to her other partner(s), don't buy into this sort of thing it can leave you with a false image of who she is by buying into her frame, and if she does have sort of hypergamous intent and thinks you're a ''better man'', you can be guarenteed she will be seeking to leave her husband for you, the actions speak louder then words, and if you are considering this, know that it is highly likely she will do the same to you, and it has no reflection on you being better or worse, or being a bitch/real man or how ever you frame this in your mind, this is just your ego feeding you these thoughts
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