If your at a bar, club, mall, party etc... And you want to close on a girl you just met.

Wouldn't it be better to give your number to her and not get her's, so that you won't appear needy/instead more desirable and also make it easier to know if she is truly interested in you by receiving that 1 phone call. If you don't get that phone call then you know she really wasn't interested to begin with and so you can move on with your life towards the next one.

Or

Would it be better to get her number and not give yours?

Or

If you get her number then automatically give her yours?

your number.

think of it this way. you are selling a product and you have business cards. what would you do when you are done talking to that person? you say "it was nice meeting you here is my card, call me anytime" your card has the number on it.

however though you might not get a call from her so you just keep giving it out and someone that your interested in will txt or call you

Every time I've given my number I havnt Gotton a call back, Everytime i get her number I get a reply
If you give you're number vs asking for hers I think giving yours appears more needy, your throwing your number at her Even though she probly didn't ask for it, that seems needy IMO
And when you ask it shows confidence. Your taking control of the call and situation instead of hoping she'll call you at some random time you don't even know, I know a lot of guys will buckle under pressure like that (3 days later) "look she's not Gunna call you" "SHE'S GUNNA CALL ME"
And Shane your so close but your forget, YOUR the prize not the item to be sold, she should be trying to earn you not you trying to sell yourself to her, that's some internal game you still gotta work on- your the prize, shes trying to game you

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Always best to get HER number, and then text something funny to her immediately, or even as a joke exchange phones and have each other enter a funny name to remember the other person. I always whip my phone out and have her enter her number. Give a girl her number odds are you wont hear from her unless a substantial amount of attraction is there off the bat. By having her enter her own number there's less margin for error (e.g., not hearing her properly in a loud setting such as a club or bar).

I either hand them my phone, and just say you know what to do... I always ask for the phone number by asking or handing them my phone. After I get their number I call it, so I don't get that stupid text message saying who is this. I always tell the girl I am calling your phone so you can save it and on top of that you are making sure its not a fake number or some other shit. Killing 2 birds with one stone right there

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Your right charblad. Getting her number is always the safe bet and yeah you can get her to text you back thats true. however the reason i say give her your number is because like you said i am the prize. i have had where that i make them want me like they already have it. i usually get the text from them right away. like i have seen it as it almost like when i get her number i have to do the work to get her as if she is the prize and i need to work for it. when i give my number it turns on to have them working for my attention not me trying for her's. but yes when i get her number and texting her something witty is what i would do. like when i number close i do something like lets hang out heres my number blah blah blah

For me, it depends on her level of interest. I'll leave my number if I game her right an d her level of interest is quite high and I ALWAYS tell them so include a pic so I know who they are when they text me. They ALWAYS do like 8 out of 10 girls I gave my number too. It's my way to be not needy and show DHV that I'm getting a lot of people texting me.

And I would ask for number if I didn't have time to build a lot of rapport or attraction to be safe.

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Best line for me is "lets swap numbers".

However you need to be the one getting in touch with her regardless...

If a girls gives you her number, she wants you to call...

nifton you would be right except for the fact that when you ask for a number she will give it to you in the hopes you forget or give you a fake number sometimes. you dont need to be the one to get in contact with her at alll. she is working for you. like GKS said giving her your number with the right level of interest is a good way to do it and getting hers is good when there is no time to build the attraction level that high. and so back to henspic's question at a bar or club or what have you your number can be sufficient

I think it's one of those you have to gauge. I've swaped with a girl before and felt like i wasn't bang into it, so never contacted her. however this girl was crazy keen, as 2 weeks later bumped into her friends and they were bollocking me for not getting in touch, they said this girl had been pining for me solid for two weeks, pissing her friends off talking about me and driving herself mad over why I hadn't called.

So, just goes to show, they can be very interested, but some girls will still want to be chased, no matter what.

It's funny, the one's you aren't that keen on you end up running a more aloof game, subconsciously I guess, this drives them even more bonkers at the end of the day.

Always get her # and make sure you call it with her standing right there so that "you have my number now."

Hey lads

I always give my number. I dont care if it seems needy or not. And i have mostly had replies. there is only a few that dont contact me again.

But i dont think it makes that much difference. The important thing in all this is the fact that you should be LEADING. You tell what is happening. Here is my nmuber, call me. Give me your number, i ll text you this evening. If she likes you, she likes you and you are game, no matter if you gave your number or if you got hers.

cheers amigos!

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Thank you all for giving in on your insights. I appreciate it greatly.

Depends. I always say get hers but thats only if you can find a reason to so that can be difficult. If the opprotunity doesn't preset itself I'd give her your number

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Guys, What your think of this.

I was chatting with a woman facebook chat, after sometime i actually asked her if she is on whats app, She said yes. Than i passed her my number and asked her to add me. She did not reply to my question and after 2 days she replied me with her number and a smiley face. Did i do the right thing? What do your think