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Criss hell
PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 7:14 am 
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So I asked 2 hb 9 about what was wrong about me that they didn't like me :
First one was a hb with her friend in a bar and I gamed her for a while. I could say she was bored, but I don't know why. Since her friend was really interested in the conversation and she was the one who gave m eye contact for approaching.
I asked her at the end to be honest and tell me what she didn't like about me(maybe I was boring or wiredo etc..) she told me : You are so charming blah blah... But I was not in the good mood etc...

Anyways, I asked the same question from a hb who I gamed her and I got her number. She didn't answer my call and text after a while.So tonight I texted and asked the same question from her to be honest with me and tell me where I was wrong.
She told me the exact same thing that I was charming cool funny etc but she is so busy with her company and don't have time for dating now etc.(although she is kinda right since she mentioned in the conversation she is running a business.)
But I don't believe in what they say. I think they have no clue what they like in guys or they are trying to be nice. I begged both not to be nice to me and tell me the truth but again they said the same thing.

Generally, I am not good at picking up in general and I don't know where I am doing wrong mostly. Any ideas on how correct myself?


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Respect for having the balls to actually ask and learn from your mistakes. I had three failed dates this week and thought about doing the same. But ultimately you're never going to get an honest answer. People are pussies. I would just self analyze and move forward.

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So I asked 2 hb 9 about what was wrong about me that they didn't like me :
First one was a hb with her friend in a bar and I gamed her for a while. I could say she was bored, but I don't know why. Since her friend was really interested in the conversation and she was the one who gave m eye contact for approaching.
I asked her at the end to be honest and tell me what she didn't like about me(maybe I was boring or wiredo etc..) she told me : You are so charming blah blah... But I was not in the good mood etc...

Anyways, I asked the same question from a hb who I gamed her and I got her number. She didn't answer my call and text after a while.So tonight I texted and asked the same question from her to be honest with me and tell me where I was wrong.
She told me the exact same thing that I was charming cool funny etc but she is so busy with her company and don't have time for dating now etc.(although she is kinda right since she mentioned in the conversation she is running a business.)
But I don't believe in what they say. I think they have no clue what they like in guys or they are trying to be nice. I begged both not to be nice to me and tell me the truth but again they said the same thing.

Generally, I am not good at picking up know in general and I don't know where I am doing wrong mostly. Any ideas on how correct myself?
Hey mate,

you answer your own question.

You say that the first one looked bored... well, that means you didnt really make a connection with her. I dont really have much detail about the second one, but i guess that it is pretty much the same.

You need to be able to hook their attention. Either by running direct game or good conversation skills. How you aks?

THere are examples here:

conversational-examples-vt142224.html

Also, a good idea for you would be to write down your conversations (or what you remember from them) and post them here. we will be able to give much more accurate feedback.

cheers!

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Good for you for asking mate, respect.

I think what you are missing might be a more interesting approach. I am just throughing ideas out there and I am not sure about anything I say about you mate because you might be a cool guy and just had bad luck. But if you open interesting intriguing topics for conversation, if you are a bit funny and seem relaxed when talking to them, then I guess it will be easy for you to get girls. My opinion, just go into conversations they like so that they do most of the talking.

Appart from that I think this topic was unecessary (in the good sense) since you look to have balls, and having balls is a major part of the game.

keep it up!
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@MR Breeze: I had to. I feel I am stuck with no progress. It's really hard for me to figure out the problem. To be honest, in the bar I get attentions by my look and style but not able to pick up well.

@LD: That's a good link. How/where can I find more stuff like that?? I am not native so these types of conversations would help me a lot to have cool conversation.
But about the second chick I have no idea either she showed me so much IOIs. These are 2 examples. I have had lots of experiences like that so I have to change my "Game".
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@KingOtto: If you play poker, I am in ALL IN sitution now. I keep opening hbs left and right.
I have a killer opener. I have been told by many hbs my opener by far one best opener they ever got. I may share it in different topic.
Also, last weekend 2 hbs told me I am funny and cool. I think sometimes I am too funny that they don't take me serious and sometimes I am kinda serious. But I don't think I have been too serious anytime.
I am not too relax but doing ok but I can say holding the conversation depends whether the hb is really in to me or not. If she is , that's so easy for me. But when she is not completely in to me, it's hard for me to hold it for a long time and I feel the pressure.
I am really confused about what I am doing wrong. My latest guess is that I am approaching hbs who are too good for me . I don't know...
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My latest guess is that I am approaching hbs who are too good for me . I don't know...
Don't ever think like that man, ever! No woman is too good for anyone, you just gotta have the right elements in tune, confidence, assertiveness, humor and look at least respectable.

Just keep practicing and you'll get all the moves together....no one became good at Tekken overnight and able to throw in 15 move combos, its the same here (actually thats a good analogy haha)
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Remember. Women's opinions about you are not always right. They are people pleasers, they might say something nice to let you down gently, especially 9s or 10s. This is why you should find a bold and blunt HBs to ask such question or at the very least someone who has the guts to slap you in the face.

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When you have a conversation with any HB her and go for the number close, on your day 2, remember the stuff she told you about in herself during qualifying (women love to talk about themselves), and try relate in some way to her stories she tells you it proves you were listening and any woman would start to feel rapport with you and would hold more interest in you that way.

Perhaps they are being genuine in their reasons, but chances are some women would choose to spare your feelings - Even though you asked for a honest answer.
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