Hi there. Just a quick background. Got into pickups since the start of this year. thought i managed to finally shed some of that AFC skin, as for the last 2 months i have been closing everywhere.

But the last 4 nights though, its been rough. 1st night, I got busted by a girl, flirted and texted her about our future together and it turned out to be her guy friend using her phone to troll me as she was already sleeping. Things just went haywire from there.

2nd night, went out daygame, had 3 girls giving me huge IOI's, but i just wasn't in the zone and didn't even open.

3rd night, went to a club. Crashed almost all of my sets. Didn't form any attraction with the girls. Didn't get a close at all.

4th night, was texting a HB8. Started off great but she lost interest halfway. I blame it on myself, my text game was a joke.

Yeah. So after 8 months, its as though I'm back to square one. Just so so fed up with myself right now. Any of you guys ever been through this stage? I really need to pick myself up again. Thanks in advance.

Hey mate,

its normal. Its perfectly normal.

This is the time where you learn the most, believe it or not. Those hard times, when things get rough and tough, where it seems like you arent getting anywhere. But believe me amigo, it only looks like that.

Learn from your mistakes, and laugh with the stupid things that happen. I mean, it is actually a nice story, a trolling, jealous guy friend .

If this is your first backtime in 8 months, dude, be glad. I had after 3 months. But i never lost my motivation. i kept on looking around, saw those nice asses, amazing boob lines and i thought: dude, these can all be yours if you dont puss out now.

So... dont puss out now. After a couple of years and many successes you will look back at this day and you will be so happy you continued learning.

cheers and heads up!

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

The PUA game has ups and downs, just like in normal life. Do you give up on life when it's down? NO! So don't do it either with pick-up. Becoming a real pick-up artist means dedication, it's something u take at least 2-4 years to actually become good. Just like martial arts, soccer, hockey or other things. Don't give up, only quitters give up.

Are you a quitter?

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Hey buddy. Just wanna say a big thanks for this. Cheers my friend. And no way am i gonna end my journey here. Its just the feeling down that's getting to me. I want to snap out of it, and fast. Because next week I'm going to go at it again, and hard!

and did i mention i saw one of the girls i was texting, in the club on the 3rd night. Got totally blown by her when i just said Hi. She didn't even want to move away from her friends to talk to me privately. Totally unexpected. When shit comes, they all come together aye..