So I have this girl coming over next weekend. Basically we are having a little get together at my place with some other friends to play some drinking games and such. I have hooked up with her before, in fact this is how we hooked up the first time. Now we have a bit of history between us. We did a bit of dating and went our separate ways for awhile. Anyways her best friend and her are coming up for the weekend and plan on staying a few days while doing some drinking. Any suggestions on things to do and say to make sure she ends up in my bed and not on the couch? Now I know a lot of guys are gonna be like "She is coming to stay the night, it's a give in that it's gonna happen." Trust me, not with her. We have done this before and nothing has happened. I don't want to go jerk off in my room while a perfectly good HB9.5 I have slept with before is out on my couch and her best friend is hooking up with my friend in the next room. So suggestions would be nice.

A healthy mix of laughter, kino, DHV and innuendo usually do the trick.

If she is staying at yours rapport seems ok so I say Alpha it and let us know how is was with your HB9.5.

Just play it cool, play your game a bit but not to much she already wants to sleep with you !

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I'll be sure to give a nice lay report if everything works out with her. I'm hoping it does, but like I said we have a bit of history now. We hooked up a few times and decided to try the whole relationship thing. Then she decided she just at a point where she doesn't want one and we went our separate ways. Most would take it as a rejection, but according to her best friend who is also a very close friend of mine she hasn't been with another guy since, so possibly not. No bad blood or anything, I handled it ok, but it is a little more complicated now. We'll see how it goes.

You got to make her attracted to you sexually again, you have comfort built, in fact its really solid. Now just make her fall in love with the moment, when play with her, use a lot of push and pull and tease her, make her know you want her but can't in fact whisper to her how you want her but can't, if she asks why, then your that much closer she wants to know why you wont take her.

Keep it going, when your friend pulls his girl, whisper in her ear, i want you so bad right now, then pull her in for a kiss, then walk off get a drink, and she will be mind fucked. then go in for a kiss and fuck. Im fairly confident that will work if you keep solid the entire night, be playful and have fun enjoy the moment, she is there for you, not u there for her.

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That's exactly the kind of thing I was looking for. Thanks a lot man. I'll give an update on how it goes. This sounds like a solid plan because, as you said, comfort is very solid. I just needed a way to rebuild attraction.

God..the mystery method junkies / circus clowns in this thread with their DHV bullshit is annoying.

Just fucking escalate man. It's not difficult. Talk to her chill, get her alone, and escalate it. Start making out. Then stick your dick in.

captain thats pretty much exactly as I said, and I am as direct as it gets, so honestly what are you saying?

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1st thing, do not jerk off in ur room no matter what. u dont know what might happen in the middle of the night. 2nd i agree with what these guys r saying push pull - cat string theory - i love u/I hate u stuff. Have fun, dont psych urself out, kino escalate, look for eye contact. Get her alone, even if for a quick make out. These situations can be tough so choose wisely who comes over. ideally I would try and just invite her over that way u dont have to worry about all these other people, even if they r friends. good luck........

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Good advice as well. I'd invite her over on her own but basically her best friend is like my 3rd best frind (My old wing girl) and she is sleeping with my roommate. You get one you get the other. lol

All went well my friends. Comfort was already there as stated, I raised sexual tension, and made things fun and playful. We went outside to have a smoke while playing some drinking games. She pulled me into the back garage so we could pop out and scare my roommate and her friend when they came out. When they came out they were making out so we went ahead and just had sex on the tool bench in the garage. All went well my friends.

A-Steel, set the tone immediately when she arrives. Give her a hug and a kiss on the neck as if it's natural.

take her bag and say "I've got you in here tonight." and walk her shit to your room then and there - again as if it's the most natural thing in the world.

You aren't asking permission - you're not asking anything - you're just saying it matter-of-factly as if you're telling her you were going to take out the trash.

Your mood will help dictate her mood. Your hesitancy will show you weak, your aggressiveness will show you desperate. Your being natural, upbeat and affable will say "this is all comfortable..." Like you said, she's already fucked you before. That intimacy has been established. If you fucked her well - she will be in your room.

Escalate during the night. Always push/pull. Let the push be light, then pull harder as the night progresses. Then, when it's time for bed, it's not a big deal - and NO mention of fucking need be made unless she initiates. Gambler's deal on micro-seduction is quite beneficial, I'd try to find that....

Best,

RR






edit: Nevermind, just read this ....

LOL - well done man!

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Hahaha, thanks man. I think I did pretty well since she initiated. I will keep all that in mind for future issues though. lol. Never know when I'm gonna want it from her again.

Pretty well?

You fucked her.

You did outstanding!

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