Well a friend and I are on a mission this summer -and through the course of however long we will be practicing- to become really good at picking up girls, except we ONLY do day game- like malls/beaches that sort of stuff. Not because we don't like clubs or bars, its just that we aren't able to get into them yet as we live in the U.S. San Diego actually.

So far I've approached 6 sets ( would've been more but honestly if you see the mall you go to there is nothing but girls with their mothers/father boyfriends and the like... Also we're going up to anything , as in ugly, fat, pretty, black, white, asian, anything that just as long their within out age range, 19)

I've pretty much gotten over my fear of rejection pretty quickly, As in when before I did my first set I probably passed up about 15 and now I can usually go up to a set within a 10 second time frame.

I've been noticing that when a set doesn't give you much to work with it doesn't mean bail, but currently I usually end up being like 'I'm not as good at improvising as i need to be. Move on' and I know they could al be workable in one way in another, I generally get positive feedback but don't know how to work the situation just yet, but I'm sure I'll get there in time.


This is a lot of info and my first post but please give me something helpful.

My question is this:

For all of you that are pretty good at this and have gotten better through the course of time, estimate to me how many sets it took you to get there, or at least what accomplishment where you able to achieve that told you "Finally, I'm where i need to be"

If your a fast learner like I was it'll take you 4-6 months of solid work. You have to work at it every week. I worked hard and adapted with every set. I failed a lot, but the success rates are now much higher and more entertaining results

Have fun with this and like me you will get bored. Work on making this fun when it gets dry by creating games/challenges and you will be fine.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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