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For any of you that have read and follow Gamblers "The Natural Art of Seduction"
one thing has always confused me. In describing mid game he goes on to say to connect on the hooks a girl gives you- an example would be:
Girl: I want to move to new york someday
PUA: wow you will love it there, the people are great its a fantatic vibe you really seem the sort of person who would enjoy it over there ect
however to connect on every hook like this isnt natural, im not talking in terms of natural game, but in the fact that conversations dont really work that way and after the third hook or it will just seem like you are trying to analyse her. in the book it offers little info on calibrating this technique to work more towards a two way conversation.
so what do you guys think of this? personally i see it as a means to reach the hook point and to try get her talking about herself, but even if its used purely for this it leaves you in open water in terms of conversation
Cheers for reading guys
I have read this book and I love this type of game. I would love to go to New York is a great hook. You could say, I heard there are great places to shop at out there. What kind of places do like to shop at? If there was one item you would shop for in New York, what would it be? These types of questions are friendly and non-intrusive and dont make it look like your analyzing her. Then talk about what you would do if you went to New York.
Practice this with friends and co-workers. There are always hook points. You just need to look for them.
I talked to my manager this morning about my kids moving back to TX, then we talked about the travel, because he has traveled to India, and then we talked about driving. And bad drivers. I was practicing finding hook points to continue a converstation.
This kind of comes naturally to me due to the fact I used to be hardcore into hip hop and freestyle battle. I had freestyled a lot back in the days so this part of natural game I got down.