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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:28 am 
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I brought this girl I was gaming to a bonfire my friends were having. As I went around introducing each other one of the girls asked "Oh, so are you guys dating?".

It really threw me off guard.

I just said "Well I'm only kinda wheeling her at the moment".

Looking back at it now I feel like that was pretty AFC.
What would be a better thing to say?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:31 am 
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same shit happened to me! I said "oh we're uh friends..." I was thinking what the fuck did I just do! and she giggled and just said, "riigghhhtt" lol save!


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I don't think you should be worrying at all about what you should have said, my friend.

How did she react to what you originally said?
If it were bad, I'd focus on now "what could have been done?" but more "what should I say next?"

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:53 am 
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Flip it back and don't answer.

You: "Are you dating?"

Be mysterious and don't answer the question. Just keep avoiding it. She will go nuts. Deflect. Deflect. Deflect.


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Flip it back and don't answer.

You: "Are you dating?"

Be mysterious and don't answer the question. Just keep avoiding it. She will go nuts. Deflect. Deflect. Deflect.
Ask a friend if shes dating? What?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:47 am 
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Ask a friend if shes dating? What?
Fuck - read it too fast, I thought she asked "Are you dating anyone?"

Anyway my answer to your question would be flip it back on her friend and ask her: "Idk, what is dating?". or just be a smart ass and say "Wanna come to the wedding?".

Just don't answer.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 9:51 am 
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When asked such question, NEVER seriously answer it. Use Cocky and Funny.
EX:
"No, she's my stalker. I called the cops on her, that's how it started"
"Oh no, we're divorce. I caught her kissing our bell boy Estevan"

Another technique I like to use is flipping the questions. Simple say "Define dating". The person who asked question will start qualifying. Then I will pick up the topic and steer the conversation away. EX: "Btw, since we're on this topic, how do you think about blah blah blah?"

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"She just uses me for stellar sex."

"I dialed 1-900-hot-babe, and I struck gold. Look what they sent me!"

"She picked me up at an animal shelter. She decided to get a hound dog, and walked out with me."

or... if it's not a friend, but an acquaintance...

"Whoa, pump your brakes... I'm on a date and you're hitting on me? Slow your roll darlin"

As Gekko says: Keep it light, keep it playful.

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