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Wen talking to girls like if i like the girl and everything and assuming i have her number at this point and we've met like she likes me back like its just kinda natural but the thing that holds me back the most is making that initial approach to talk to a girl if i dont know her, i usually rely on friends introducing me or something along those lines so how do i overcome this i guess fear of mine?
Thanks-MarkiS
I used to be like this.
But the trick is to do it in public places - where if you fail - there will be no connection back to you. It's bad to do it on campus because if you fail she may tell her friends which may get back to you.
While in public, and you want to talk to her just making a casual approach and monitor for positive signs. And make sure you go through each stages before you close and get her number. And don't stay too long talking to her. Just make it quick so you can text her later.