First off, I've been banging girls like crazy lately. Just one after the other.

So I basically meet an HB10 at the mall with 3 of her girlfriends. I escalate like crazy on her she was shy as hell and I got her number, kissed her on the cheek. She was like, "I don't know what to say! bla bla" Anyways everyone was laughing and good time. I called her up later, she didn't respond. Then she called me but I was busy so we texted a bit. She was really excited. So today I called her:

Me: Hey I want to see you this week, what day is good for you?
Her: I don't know..I'm working all the time.

So I try to set a date and she seemed pretty excited but then she said, "We should talk first before we go out. I don't feel comfortable, you know what I mean?"

Me: I understand but that's exactly why I want to see you.
Her: What if we hate each other?
Me: If we hate each other then we hate each other. We won't ever see each other again.
Her: It's just that one of my friends got a bad vibe from you. (probably because she was jealous or the common cock-block trying to protect or too much of a bad boy)
Me: Oh ok.
Her: Hey I got to go, let's talk more! Text me.

In the meantime I'm on campus walking around getting numbers and running to to girls hitting on them 2 hours later I texted her:

I can't get to know you unless I see you. I find you...very attractive. Pleasure meeting you Karrina.

No response for 3 hours so far.

But yeah, I pondered over this decision. In the end I just thought I'm on my own terms and if you think about it, you just cannot feel attraction for a girl over text or phone. You have to SEE her, you have to be in her space to feel if there is attraction. It makes no sense, words just don't matter that much in "The non-existant game".

Or if a girl says, "We must wait x amount of days until we have sex, etc." I don't want to be trained like a dog. I just don't want to be that guy who played by her rules instead and in the end the girl ended up rejecting him, crushing his hopes. It just becomes two people who messed it up and all of a sudden made it awkward by forcing sex almost as if it were something you PLAN to do.

So what do you think in situations like these or how I handled it?

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

It's over. Move on.

Saying "that's exactly why I wanted to see you" gave her the upper hand. She knows by saying no she's not giving you want you want. Should have made some joke out of her being a workaholic or boring or something.

I think saying things like "I find you very attractive" is just too much too soon. That just doesn't work with my game. But everyones game is different. TBH, if a girl texted me saying I was very attractive after just meeting her I'd be a little weirded out or if not I would feel superior to the person who texted that to me.

I say things like that from a position of power though almost as if she feels that I ascribed her the trait that she's attractive. But the reason I said "That's exactly why I wanted to see you" was meant to basically mean that's exactly what the first date is for you know what I mean? Even if she said no, I still wrote her off in the end which would balance out the upper hand thing from your perspective.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.