Hey guys, since I've only been asking a lot, but never contributed much, it's time to give something back to you guys which works for me.

Everybody here knows that your first approaches suck, and most of the time aren't going to close immediatly. Count these approaches as a warm-up. You still make the approaches, but they don't let these kill your mood.

It's just like a soccer game. You first warm-up, get those muscles to work, and after that you're ready for a 90-minute physical soccer game. So does gaming women. You warm-up with a few approaches, to get into a state of good mood. Approaching just to open, not necessarily closing the girls.

Now you think by yourself, what do I say?

Simple: Perhaps you walk up to her, and then at the last minute you evade her. If you persist on doing the physical walking up, after 2 times you actually say something. This works really well for me:
Hey, I just wanted to say you look really nice tonight. (don't smile, you don't have to).
She either says: Thank you! (with a smile) or Thank you (in a; whatever dude attitude). It's fine, you don't care if she does that, because you're just warming up.
You could follow-up with: Does that make ur night good? Those who smiled will nodd with that same, cute smile that makes you feel good about yourself.

After the 2nd line you have 2 options:
~Go for it and follow it up by statements like:
I think you're 19 years old/a good dancer/into shopping.
~Eject because you want to approach more

It's both fine. You could also make a situational compliment about a piece of clothing, purse, hair, etc etc. You could even use it for approaches if you have already warmed up, because girls like compliments.

This is field test approved by me, and I believe that at least 70% responded well, even HB's 8 and up. However those HB"s hear that a lot so you gotta follow-up with a statement or dance with her.

Wallie

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