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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:49 pm 
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What's a good response to this?

Me: Hey dork, what are you up to?
HB: Hey jerk, just got out of class... sup
Me: You busy later? We have unfinished business from Saturday.
HB: Haha, sorry dude, but I'm busy forever o.o

We hooked up Sat. but no lay. We only hooked up for like 10 minutes before her friends took her away. So the number is kinda flaky, i.e. if i don't move fast, I'll lose it. Advice?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:16 pm 
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She was just playing with you..

Remember, as long as a girl is writing back, I don't care what she says its because she has some kind of interest. She ignores guys all day

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 11:13 pm 
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I love the rapport you have with the HB, to me I feel you can get a lay and if you feel she is showing you interest then unless you screw it up badly by saying something utterly stupid I find you'll be fine just bounce off the style you have, its good :)


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She was just playing with you..

Remember, as long as a girl is writing back, I don't care what she says its because she has some kind of interest. She ignores guys all day
Right. She definitely is still interested. I'm just not sure how long I have before that attraction loses momentum. We were only together for like 10 minutes. I figured I wasn't going to get a quick lay out of this so I'm trying to set up a day2.

And just to note, I'm pretty sure she doesn't have guys texting her all day. She goes to an all-girls college. Maybe she's looking for a keeper or something.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 11:57 pm 
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All girls college = no guys = serious frustration.

I think the 'we have unfinished business' might have come across as too direct. Try going for the CF "I'd wait forever and a day for one more glimpse of you ;P. Now man up and make space for me, biatch xx"

Doesn't seem like any kind of issue here anyway :)


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:08 am 
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She was just playing with you..

Remember, as long as a girl is writing back, I don't care what she says its because she has some kind of interest. She ignores guys all day
Right. She definitely is still interested. I'm just not sure how long I have before that attraction loses momentum. We were only together for like 10 minutes. I figured I wasn't going to get a quick lay out of this so I'm trying to set up a day2.

And just to note, I'm pretty sure she doesn't have guys texting her all day. She goes to an all-girls college. Maybe she's looking for a keeper or something.
Loses momentum? What are you talking about? You have everything it takes to double/triple/quadruple that large amount of attraction that is already present, Or do you? .. She gave you a sentence response and a smiley.. Assume attraction always, fuck what anyone on the forum tells you, a girl is always interested as long as you believe she is.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:10 am 
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alright update. I think I may have gone too far.

Me: fair enough. I want a bit more than just casual texting though. YOu free for lunch tomorrow?
HB: I have a daily ritual where I eat lunch with my friends errday... what class do you take at -----?
Me: You're making it very hard for me here.
HB: hahaha... my badness... Perhaps it's just not meant to be
Me: how bout dinner tomorrow in my room. Naked.
HB: As lovely as that proposition sounds... it's not
Me: Did I mention whips and handcuffs?
HB: haha only on tuesdays cool kid (today is monday)
Me: Tomorrow. 9pm. I'm going to ravage you...
HB: Cool. Story. Bro.
Me: Hah. We'll see who's talking after tomorrow.
HB: Buh Byeeee... Have a great life

WTF? I don't understand what I did wrong. Anyone have pointers for me? Literally I feel like my text game sucks. I don't know how to escalate forward in the right way.


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alright update. I think I may have gone too far.

Me: fair enough. I want a bit more than just casual texting though. YOu free for lunch tomorrow?
HB: I have a daily ritual where I eat lunch with my friends errday... what class do you take at -----?
Me: You're making it very hard for me here.
HB: hahaha... my badness... Perhaps it's just not meant to be
Me: how bout dinner tomorrow in my room. Naked.
HB: As lovely as that proposition sounds... it's not
Me: Did I mention whips and handcuffs?
HB: haha only on tuesdays cool kid (today is monday)
Me: Tomorrow. 9pm. I'm going to ravage you...
HB: Cool. Story. Bro.
Me: Hah. We'll see who's talking after tomorrow.
HB: Buh Byeeee... Have a great life

WTF? I don't understand what I did wrong. Anyone have pointers for me? Literally I feel like my text game sucks. I don't know how to escalate forward in the right way.
You pushed way too hard to sexualize the conversation when she obviously wasn't having it. Even in the first exchange "we have unfinished business" was, in my opinion, too forward and obvious. Girls are wired differently. Research ASD (anti-slut defense).

Girls don't want to take part in their own seduction. They want to think it "just happened". By saying you have unfinished business, you telegraphed your intentions and raised her ASD.

I don't sexualize over texts unless a sexual relationship is already very well established. I know the direct game guys will disagree, but that's how I do.

By the second failed attempt to turn things sexual, you just looked desperate/horney and borderline creepy.

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yeaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh I suppose you could try to save with a heartfelt LIE :P Tell her you left your phone at a friends house or something? Either way mate that was far too weird to pass :)

Sometimes things that are meant to be a laugh come across as creepy :P


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