So I have been setting up dates (over texts) and they will say yes and well chat for a bit afterwards.

So here are my questions.

1. Once she confirms the date do I continue the chat or just leave it at that
a. I am thinking continue so it doesnt look like my only agenda is to take her out but I generally care for her and such.

2. Do I confirm the date (this weekend) day before or day of?

3. I dont want to come off as needy so should I not talk/text to her until I confirm the date or day of?

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1. Dont overthink this.
2. If she wants to go out on the date she will be there
3. Make the date over text, but make it so its a day or less away, ideally, then u dont have to worry about texting more in between.
4. I always text the day of the date to make sure its still on. Only way i dont do this is if i know for sure she will be there or if she texts to make sure ill be there.

Always make solid plans; specifics like time and place. It really doesnt make sense to me to text her between date setup and date. It seems kinda need, like u cant wait to see her. imo make her wait and wonder what ull be like on a date or what u have planned for her.

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1. doesn't matter, do what you feel like doing, if you want to keep talking to her cause you are enjoying it do so, if you want to cut it off after that, that is fine, it you that is important, not how you set up this date, she either wants to meet up with you, or she doesn't,

a) this will have almost no relevance that I can think of unless she has absolutely close to 0 investment in you (if you have talked to her for more then 1 hour and she answers your texts/calls this should be fairly irrelivant)

2. I like to call the day of the date, before the date and just say, what time did you want me to pick you up today?

3. if you are feeling needy, you are by default needy, just relax man, what will be will be, you can text her before, you can text her the day of, you can not text her, what is most important is that you are not worried about it and it is not a big deal

Thanks mates, I prob sound a lot more "desperate/needy" in that post. I really am not, I just want to learn what I should and should not do so to speak.

I dont really have a reason to chat with her, I want her to think about me and what is going to happen. I will leave it at that. The day before I will call her and ask what time shall I get her and such.

I appreciate the replies, its what I thought

Thanks!!

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-Raphael

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