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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:42 am 
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I am talking to this chick. I think she was either a lesbian or sexually assaulted or some shit. So this chick starts getting upset during conversation and starts telling me that i dont know when to stop, when i asked her whether she tests me or just plain don't like me . she said neither. she said i am just annoying. All i did was just tried to talk about relationships, general shit, and she got upset. i dont want to move on because now i want to angry fuck her just for that. is there any books or advices.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:52 am 
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Give up on her, you've gone too far from the sounds of it. Asking if she's testing you or doesn't like you or anything else is such a huge sign of insecurity I can't even begin to explain it. Try to talk about more interesting, neutral things next time. Not relationships. It doesn't matter if what you say has any substance - as long as it's interesting, that's all what matters.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 4:25 am 
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Unless your story about your ex is fucking hilarious and makes your ex look retarded or just makes you look awesome dont talk about your ex.

Make your stories more entertaining, try and create moments of surprise, humour, danger, and other climatic emotions.

Learn from this girl and move on simple as that. I think you learnt a valuable lesson, took what you did and stop doing it. I think this will help you a lot. Also like Snarg said, why would you ask her why she doesnt like you. That is seeking way too much approval. YOu could have turned it around and said well thats funny I was just thinking how we would never work, and give some cute (NOT ASSHOLE) reason why you would never work. Be flirtatious and entertaining, not a snooze.

Talking about general shit is what you do with your mom when she asked you how was your day. When a girl asks how your day was you say something funny charming and interesting. Something that she can think about when she thinks about you or tells her friends.

LET HER TALK, in the comfort phase you should ask her questions and in return she will ask you (if she is attracted to you).

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 4:46 am 
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Learn to read body language better and learn how to socialize better. As I bet she gave you signs that you where annoying before she came out and told you.


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I once had a girl stare at me for 10 seconds straight while wickedly licking her lips and the moment I approached, she shot me down and then accused me of being a weird creep.

Women relish crushing egos, it's their way of universally increasing their secksual market value. Don't take it personally when a girl rejects you, calls you annoying, or thinks of you as a dirty scum bag. If these things get to you, you will become the bane of assholery; that CARING asshole, the one whose negs and teases and approaches come from a place of spite rather than amusement or mastery. Take this as a good opportunity to learn to let go. You can't let a girl fuck with your head, ever. You wanting a revenge fuck is the same thing as you being upset you got rejected; she has broken you.

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I am talking to this chick. I think she was either a lesbian or sexually assaulted or some shit. So this chick starts getting upset during conversation and starts telling me that i dont know when to stop, when i asked her whether she tests me or just plain don't like me . she said neither. she said i am just annoying. All i did was just tried to talk about relationships, general shit, and she got upset. i dont want to move on because now i want to angry fuck her just for that. is there any books or advices.
Sounds like a case of too many negs on an insecure girl, and too many misinterpretations of shit tests that weren't really shit tests.

Good going genius.


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