Hey guys,

So I met this girl (HB8, and we're both 19) awhile ago we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half. But she's really confusing me. When she's with me she acts all lovey dovey, we have had sex, and it's generally just a great time. Great time as in, we laugh, talk, and lots of kissing. She also wants me to meet her parents. But the thing is, she forgets about dates sometimes, never texts me first, and forgets to tell me she's going to miss the date.

I feel a connection with this girl, but for some reason I feel this vibe she doesn't really care. Is it just in my head? Or what?

Thanks if you can help me out!

Some people are absentminded, so don't go off the deep end.

But it may help if you got a life. I don't mean that in the sense of an insult, I mean occupy your time with all the other things you enjoy so that you don't hang on every word that comes from this chick. You have friends, hobbies, etc. Don't leave your whole weekend empty because you want to see her, and if you have a date planned Friday night and you haven't heard from her a halfhour before that date? You oughta consider cracking open that bottle of rum in your fridge, invitin a buddy over, and playing Skyrim.

Haha, thanks.

But I usually do other things with my time. Between school and sports I don't have much time. But I see what you mean. I guess I'm over reacting.

focus on how she is when the two of you are together, don't get caught up in the in-between.

Could she actually possibly be busy, has a life, is doing something important? The answer is yes, her life doesnt revolve around you. Yours shouldn't revolve around hers either.

If she is acting lovey dovey around you clearly she likes you and is invested. Maybe you should communicate more about this. Are you to pussy to talk about how its fucked up she ditches you? You dont have to be clingy or needy about it, just tell her to pick a date best for her.

As for her texting you first, just dont text her first and wait till she texts you.

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