I was listening to Tony Robbins session on how to create more time for yourself earlier today, and he always talks about the right way of thinking and focusing...

And it got me thinking. When I first started working on myself 3 years ago my answers to the above question were all in the negative:
- I want to stop being a wuss around girls
- I wanna stop feeling depressed all the time
- I don't want to spend my Saturday nights home alone watching stupid tv and eating junk food
And other stupid shit like that.

Nowdays, it's a little hard for me to relate to the question above, and my focus is on other stuff. The only answer I have is
- I want to make sure I marry the right girl

I would really like to hear from someone who is just starting now the REASONS WHY they want to improve, NOT WHO DO THEY WANT TO BECOME, BUT WHY.

Shoot.

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Because sex with sexy girls is fun, as is having them love you.

I want to have fun with women.

I want to have an attractive female with me when I go out.

I want to be able to unleash my true personality on the world.

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because sex is fun, also, the sense of achievement and probably deep down, i do it to seek approval from others

i want the BEST girl i can have
so i want my princess?
yes i want a girl with a mission in her life.. no matter if that's killing as many people as possible or world peace

i just hate the "i get what i life gives me" and "destiny" thing

so..i figured out that a girl who's both HOT and like that won't be found by an AFC like i was (and still am)

and..well..i'll try to deal with fucking gorgeus girls left and right before knowing the right one

but being rational..it's not the catch here.. it's the chase
i want to be a better person in both man and woman-verse

like attracts like and i attracted way too many selfhating/worldhating/losers who can only blame the world for their lack of action

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- I like to master things I was never good at.
- I want to improve my social skills.
- I want to have fun.
- I want to learn about the psychology behind social interactions
- I want to help other AFC's in need once I stop being one myself.
- I don't want to be a guy that girls (or anyone) can push around.

Safe to say that I am you three years ago, my friend. Nice to hear that you have made strides on becoming who you are today!

I'm just sick of feeling inadequate when I know I have so much to offer. I know you can relate to the frustration, it's good to see that dedication breeds success!

Cause I'm trying not to develop carpal tunnel syndrome

So I can get woman to chase me more then they currently do. I am not a pimp by any means, but I can get a gf. I just want more.

I like psychology, a lot -like really a lot! I think this is a really interesting field of the human mind. I want to learn it.

I like manipulating scenarios sometimes. I know its very fucked up of me but they can be used in good ways.

I want to master an art. Like Mystery said this is like Martial arts but for a Seducer. So yea want to master this art.

Hope that is what you were looking for. I actually was asked this when someone called me when I signed up for boot camp. Those were my answers.

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I want my life to be more enjoyable.

I'm here to help and learn more.

I'm a guy and I love having beautiful women in my life. I love having a "playboy" aura around me because that, in it's own, attracts more women to me. I want to be able to pick any girl in any social setting and know that she's coming home with me that night. As with anything in life, I don't want to put a cap or a limit on anything i can accomplish. I'll always be reaching for something bigger and better until I know I am 100% satisfied with what I have. Otherwise, what's the point of living?

- Stylite

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Because I'm a people person and want to remove the factors that are limiting my life. I want to be able to be the person I truly am inside openly to others too. And of course to have sex with beautiful girls too heh.

I want to be the best me.
I want to trust and be trusted truly.
I want to lay wonderful girls.
I need sex, the best sex.
I have a ego, I like who I am becoming.
I want to be true to myself. I know doing that will make me true to the one.
I can believe in love again. I need to find out what it is that i like fully.
This focus helps me organize my life fully and better.

Good post bra

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I want to have a better life.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I want to bump into the girl of my dreams and know how to get her.

Along the way have happy days and sex with lots of other nice girls.

I certainly didn't go into this with this thought but am beginning to realise that this stuff is making me better in my professional life too, I am learning the skills to make a connection with everyone, and as they say it's not what you know.....

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