Hey there I'm a young guy who's been doing this for about year now and is in need of some advice, I'm currently thinking of helping guy who was once like my self, shy and unconfident and was left in the dark at the back of the class room. But is unsure of how to go about solving this problem of mine would it be to carry on getting my skill down for a few more year then set something small up.

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would a appreciated you help and advice deeply.

It's too soon for you, one year is nothing. You should have much more experience doing this, think that if you get into teaching you will meet much more older guys than you with all type of questions and the most valuable help is the one that comes from experience. Can you offer that kind of help?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

I actually believe helping someone helps improve yourself. So try and help him as much as you can.

Everyones first problem is AA, if he has this, which most of the people I help (friends) do have. Then you need to get rid of this problem with a numbers game + making him do silly things to realize it doesnt matter.

I go to malls a lot to practice day game. Since I am not 21 I can't legally go to clubs and help them.

In the malls I make an approach and make him stand next to me to hear what I say and then transition. I then point to a person and tell him to go try it out. I am a bit forceful. He will probably fail the first few times, but its the fact he recognizes he cant do it and has a problem. We dont want him to be cocky and say he can do it. Then I started making him do jumping jacks, or singing in stores, or silly things. I would do it too of course. I made him then go up to 5 females and just open and tell me their eye colors. Go up to girls at elevators and use a situational opener and so fourth.

He still has AA but now a lot less than others, he can go up to people within a close proximity and talk to them. He wont run up to a girl yet which I hate. But if he messes up I make him do push ups and silly things to just realize who gives a shit.

On our second time out I met two girls I knew and actually set up a date so he can see what it is like. We went out for drinks after a day of sarging. Once at the date he spoke to the girls and communicated. Although by accident, I think it was very helpful. I knew immediately after I met the chicks to get a date happening.

So yea I dont think I covered close to all of it, but I think I touched upon how I do it and the guy I am currently mentoring actually has told me over the past week he hasn't been more confident. He was petrified to talk to girls now he can open them and after I come in as a wing we can have a conversation. **At first you will have to carry the convo for a bit, but slowly slowly he will get more involved**

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Ah just like to thank you for taking the time out to give me this advice it has
help me and gave me a better understanding of where to on from this, so firstly
when you say not enough experiences how do you know when you've got the right amount of experiences three year four years, and i love the fact that you do learn to become better from you mates which is one I'm going to keep in mind.

Still think it's down to me to help these nerdy and so call outcasts guy who have this problem with women, if anyone has any more helpful advice I would love to hear it and how I could keep going on this journey to help not just my self but those guys who seek the help day in day out leave me a comment.

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thanks for the help it truly means a lot to me.