Simply I got this girl who I see at her work we got good chat but she most of the time starts the convos with half jokey insults etc, I got the idea she is interested but I am sort of getting a bit fed up with the insults (again they are not seriously said) I think she is gaming me in some way too, would it be a good move to say something like,

"hey all the insults remind be of being in infant school with the girl who likes you in the playground that pushes you then runs off, you can be my friend don't be shy"

I need to sort it out as I am not patient enough to wait for her to sort her shit out or volley the insults back

she is either interested and shit testing you to see if your man enough

or she is just beta'ing you because she hates chumps

in either case, id go over the top of her. So whatever she says, have some default comeback to put her in her place. I'm sure you can think of some, just be man enough to use them.

I wouldn't use the one you listed here, its too reactive, seems like shes got your goat

Do this but in a joking manner as well. Don't be like Well your fucking fat as fuck, I see those thighs popping out... this is bad hahah!

Somewhat neg her, she commets about your look, you reply. "Thats strange you say I look disheveled, I was just about to comment about your hair, looks like you didnt have time to brush it... What happened forgot to do you homework(or project what ever really) so u rushed it in the morning?" But smile and even do a light laugh afterwards, she will def be like omg u ass hahah ur so funny!

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what ever you do don't get mad, honestly I think the best way to deal with this is blow it off and lose interest in her, she comes up and jokingly insults you, just say yeah that's cool whats up?, then start playing with your phone and not paying attention to her

or just look at her like she is dumb and say ok?

Dumb move, that's not a neg but rather defensiveness. Being defensive kills any chance of seducing.

I think the first replies would come over as reactive and I dont want her to think she is winding me up it would probably fuel her more, that why I thought of what I put to difuse it, I like Pumpingtons suggestion but I think I need to actively say something that alpha's me as I feel she is in the driving seat at the moment.

Maybe some cocky/funny? (Dam, i feel like a cd skipping. Seems I suggest this a lot haha)

HB: *Insult*
PUA: "You wandered all the way over here to use such a lame pickup line?"

or

HB: *Insult*
PUA: "I can see in your eyes you really wanted to say (insert whatever)."

Something playful.

Top man Kurto, I love those two lines, just the sort of thing I need, both would difuse the insult and offer a follow on, cheers