so im goin out with this girl for a cupl weeks, and shes very much attracted to me (and me to her as well). we make out every time we hang but nothing more. one night i lost my cool (i had this whole plan to get her to go further, and it fell through). i think it was an attraction killer for her. its been 3 days and she hasnt made contact with me. i dont know if shes still interested or not.
is there something i should do or say?

and i forgot to mention that i see her every sunday

What do you mean you "lost your cool"? Be less vague or more descriptive; you pick.

No idea what you did but...

You might have made her feel uncomfortable with herself, and showed your neediness. This is you DLV and if you lose ur cool and act like a 8th grader then definitely DLV. She will contact you soon. But I think you gotta somehow talk to her if you want to be serious with her and all. I know this isnt the best advice you can find on this site but I think my points my be the gist of it.

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thanks raphael i think u answered my question i was deff acting like an 8th grader for a few mins
what happened was, i took her out and was planning on taking her back to her place (reg "pick up and drop off") to get on with the fck, and then she mentioned that her roomate just brokeup with her bf and she needed to support her. i let my emotions get the best of me and i just got frustrated that it wasnt gonna happen that night (which i agree was stupid) - i lost my cool.
i apologized for getting mad (i dont know if that was good or bad) and she said "its fine".
so how should i talk to her now without looking needy?

Wow! That was DEFINITELY a bad move. Honestly I don't even know how to go about recovering. Your best bet is to give her some time to forget about it. You kind of came off like a total chump! I'm sorry man, you may have to let this one go. Maybe take the jealousy route and find another date for her to see you with.

- Stylite

(By the way, Love your handle. How I Met Your Mother, right?)

appreciate the advice stylite!


(yup- how i met your mother