I have used negs in the past just to test them out, but I found sometimes now matter how playful the neg, some women dont want to hear it.

And I approached a hot chick today in Barnes and Noble. She had her labtop and was eating a danish and having a mocha.

Btw, this ended my streak of two succesful approaches and getting phone number.

She was really hot so I decided to neg her cause she had her shield on.

I saw her sitting there and I went to the table where they have napkins and got a couple so I could approach from the front not her back.

First thing she did was look around to see if anyone was watching, and I hate girls who think they know what you're going to do(approach) but most times they are right lol

anyway shes looking around at the other people to see how much of a scene it would cause. And I say "ahh working on sunday huh"

her "uhmmm no not really"

and I said "ha that was funny how your forehead flattened out when u said that"

she says "it was" (sarcastically)

I said yeah, but Ive seen worse foreheads.

her: Oh well gee thanks alot, who the hell are u?

Me: I just came in here for the SPAM

Her: well so was I until U decided to walk up

Me: Well u should try it from my side

Her: I'll pass, now if u will excuse me

Me; sure, lovely meeting you

Her: Shakes her head

LOL. Now I dont really give a fuck im 2 for my last 3 but I wondered if women can get so put off by a neg, that they shut u off completely?

I love to see post like that... A warm breath of fresh air from the typical "HELP ME!!!! She said she wants to be my friend! .. What am i going to do " lol

Anyways, I find that negs aren't even necessary, If you are the prize in the interaction you shouldn't have to.. Good job approaching though, glad to see you getting out there.

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She was probably ragging it. It wasn't your fault, it was hers. Her and that damn vagina. Fuck her, you don't need her. Go out and get 5 more girls to compensate.

you are not suppose to neg her when she got a bitchshield on lol,

wasnt finish, i try to neg a girl that is not as hot not bitch shield, they wont take it as funny way, so i think she might not have a high self esteem, or she doesnt think she is that hot

Well, I wasnt really sure if she had the bitch shield on, right away, I found out soon enough.

I dont care, (im gonna recite from some books on PUA I read)

"ahh poor girl, she probably had a bad day" "I wouldnt want to be her right now, she's going through some shit, ill just walk out of here now"

LOL

I actually found the whole thing funny. Like she thought it was going to bother me,
Alot of things bother me but not some bitch acting like a primadonna at a cafe. lol

It was funny you learnt great post. Maybe and this is just a guess, dont neg too soon, when I neg a girl it usually when she is just about to loose interest, so I call her out on her shit. "I really like looking at someones eye when I talk to them" "Wow you must be texting someone really fucking important" "blah blah blah relevant to what she is doing blah blah blah" Maybe you can try this out so it gets field tested more and by different people.

Otherwise haha I was also at barnes and nobles and met a couple females... wonder if its the same one, were you that kid wearing black?

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I tell ya what man, that place is crawling with women. Not all of them hang around, but many hot intelligent women go in there buying micha and stuff. Its not a bad place to pick up cause it's easy to start a conversation.

I once started a conversation with a chick who was reading a sex positions book.

I said, nah I wouldn't try that move just yet...

got a brief smile, but women who read sex position books or rent porn, make u think twice lol, just doesnt seem normal for a woman I donno

But Im a big reader so I go often and Ive met a few women with absoultely no game at all just talking.

That is because you don't need to use negs all the time. A lot of guys here seem to think you must neg a girl all the time or neg only the hotter girls or neg for certain spots etc. The thing is you should neg when needed. Sometimes you may not need to neg a girl at all other times the whole conversation is you pretty much negging her.

She can, tho as you saw more than likely she will get mad at you more than anything.
Getting off topic, but it doesn't seem normal as society says women shouldn't be sexually open. Like I mention in the other post you need to seriously stop thinking what society dictates to you as I think once you do you will see the world in a totally different set of eyes.

Negz r overused and largely overrated. Use them to break her balls once you get to know her, but using them for pickup is kinda lame.

Of course girls dont like negs,but nobody cares what girls like. All that matters is what girls RESPOND to, and if negs reduce a girl's bitch shield & self-esteem sufficiently to entice her to seek some sort of validation/approval by letting you kiss/fuck her, then they are a very useful tool.

Asking whether girls like being negged is like asking whether cows like being slaughtered. Of course they don't, but steak tastes damn good.

First, that's not a neg that's a jack ass statement, NEGS ARE COMPLEMENTS and saying shes funny looking is not a complement.


Next, use a false disqualifier to work around the bitch shield, if you neg with a bitch shield up....well you leaned that lesson already.

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Negs are really not necessary if you are a cool confident guy.

Cool confident girls will see a guy trying to use negs on her and see through it as a ploy to hide his own insecurities.

Rather than giving girls a feeling of being brought down to your level they should feel as if they have been elevated to your level.

There is something fundamentally wrong with going into a seduction assuming that you are basically unworthy of the girl you are trying to get into bed, so you need to trick her into feeling as insecure as you feel?

No matter how you put it, Negs are a cop-out, nothing more.

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