I am 18 years old AFC( never had a girlfriend)
Me and my friend were in a Bowling Club where we go almost everyday and we met other 2 girls we knew cause we partied togheter before.
Last time we partied i tried to fark one of them(HB8) witch she refused me cause i was completely drunk,and this friend of mine hooked up with her friend and i was trying to hookup with that HB8 again , and i tried the "your not my type tehnique" my friend said it worked cause she was keeping her eyes on me later that night we meet again in club where my friend hooked up with her friend again and i was trying to get this HB8 we danced a bit.We met to other friend and then we go to one's house and there my friend ofcourse farked her friend and that hb8 stayed with us (3other guys) and after that i have gone home.
So the next day few of my friends said they were dissapointed in me cause i didn't fark that HB8,they said i could have her so easy.
I didn't make a move on her cause she danced with some other guys in club and i didn't seen any IOI's or maybe i was to drunk to see,idk why they were dissapointed in me.I just didnt thought that i should make a move,my friend's said she was into me but i didnt thought so.

I need some help on learning when to make the moves.I need to know how to create attraction in those sitiuations
it is really hard for me, i dont have much confidence because i need to lose some weight.I need more self esteem and tips for night's like this.

The main fact is that i dont know why they were dissapointed in me,i didn't saw IOI's so i didn't make a move.

Waiting for any PUA response
Thanks

bump please respond

Fark aint such a pretty word, work on that and all will be well...
Now seriously a couple of things that i see that you might focus on

1) The weight problem - if it bugs you, than it affects your game cause insecurity is somethings that resonates from a person.
My advice on this : go to a gym and if you cant afford one, take any sort of fitness regime even if it just means taking jogs in a park.
A healthy body always helps though it aint essential.
You seem really unconfident, so i'd work on that first all the way from superficial stuff like :
-Clothing that makes you feel good
- A bit of accessories if you feel comfortable with em
- Geting in shape

and also the inner stuff that is more important :
- Speech and tonality
- Body language
- Great social skills.

2) Being drunk isn't attractive...being cheerful, funny and having a drink in your hand is good, but the moment you cant think straight and respond in your best manner thats the moment you gotta stop drinking.

3) You cant expect her to send you IOI's if you dont give her a reason to do that.
Read through the material in this forum, videos on body language and whatever. there are tons of sources to learn from, and eventually you adapt yourself to whatever seems suitable.

1)I go to gym im boxing but for a month or so i have no ambition and i really wanna lose the weight

2)i know being drunk isn't attractive but it's like i have much more confidence when im drunk

3)and please help me with some link's to get better and make attraction i would really love to learn the body language

Thanks for help waiting for more responses

You should do more aerobic stuff than boxing, consult with one of the instructors there they'll probably help.

And being drunk makes you think you have more confidence which sometimes is a bit true, but the whole point of confidence that its natural. If you're a bit buzzed up there's nothing wrong with that and alot of times it helps,
but being drunk is a big no no and messes up your chances more than improves.

About body language, I actually started a thread about it yesterday so you can look there
body-language-attractive-vs-unattractive-vt121198.html

and try looking through some gambler videos on stealth attraction, he really gets to the bottom of things.

EDIT: So That girl and my friend meet again they were fucking while me and the HB8 were listening to music and i tried to kiss her like 2 times then i stopped and she was kind of all over me and i tried to kiss her again and she didint wann she was kinda making fun of me atleast i think so i was kinda drunk again..... I will freeze her out ....
but my self esteem still got fucked up so thats a bit sad for me....

Why are you not pulling the trigger, she was dancing with you, you didnt do shit, she got bored, went to someone else to pleasure her. What do you need a guy telling you to enter then eject, and hold your dick? Seriously everyone was telling you to do it but you didnt see the IOI?

List of IOI recieved

1) She was staring at you the entire club
2) She was talking to you
3) She danced with you

Well thats all you need to K-Close

4) She recognized you, had a pre consumption about you and still was around you
5) She met up with you in a club
6) Went to a house with you I mean come on seriously two insta-dates right there

Really what else do you need? I know I am coming off as an asshole but you need someone to tell you to wake the fark up and get your dick wet.

If a girl is even talking to you and giving you attention you probably have 3 IOI ask her a compliance question, talk for a bit, then isolate and kiss. There clearly was seduction location cause your friend got laid, so no excuse for no where to go.

Just learn from this and keep fighting, you got the heart, now use your cock.

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Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

bro read the LAST POST please my last edit

This is just my opinion, you needd to stop getting drunk :/....it seems like it effects your game. you dont seem to pay much attention, or cant see the small things like IOIs.

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

it seems like i am unattractive when i get drunk but i cant get the same confidence when im sober .... i would never try to kiss the HB8 if i wasn't drunk... how do i get the same confidence??? sometimes my drunk confidence gets me in trouble or things like this when i get sad for trying and didnt get able to do. how do i Solve it?

Try not to worry about it much. If your sober you'll be able to see IOIs. As long a you are able to see she is interested ease up, and just let the conversation flow. Try to work on you're kino

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

lets review the compliance so far, from talking straight to fucking, no compliance

talking to dancing there is compliance,

dancing to kissing, no compliance, you were persistent and said you tried two times, so she was ''sort of all over you'' but making fun of you and hurting your self esteem (not sure exactly what was happening, was she all over you, or busting on you?)

now, what I see is no compliance, and that girl is just the tag along winging her friend, while she fucks your friend, you would be better off just meeting different girls that will kiss you, find out in 15-30 minutes if you can, would be much more efficient, then putting effort into a girl only to have your time wasted in the end

(escalating with compliance tests will save face easier for you, and it won't look like rejection if you hit a compliance threshold and it will be smoother)

just talk to lots of girls instead of going for just one, get comfortable finding out fast and hitting on them in general, then it wont seem like such a leap of faith to put it all out there for one in your social circle, it is just another girl and her saying no is just a big joke cause you can just go talk to others that want to talk to you

Spikez does it matter what you said in that last post, you still never got anything. I think you need to stop drinking as everyone else has said and top being a tool and letting this girl get the best of you, if she is mind fucking you, fuck her and get some other chick. What do you gain from wasting your time getting blue balls?

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html