So I am not claiming this is the best date I have ever had or will have, but I want to kind of have a set regime, spice it up a bit depending on the day or mood but generally this is what it will be.

1. Start off with going to a italian store which serves gelato and crepes (I am french so it can be a good traveling DHV opportunity + crepes are awesome.)

2. Walk to a mini park which is located outside the town mall, we can walk there talk relax sit on a bench and finish off our drinks or what not.


3. Mall - We go window shopping, try things on, enjoy ourselves, walk around possibly get a starbucks or something.

4. Go to a store that sells awesome fries called Garden Catering.

5. This shop as well as others is located by another park where the town holds many concerts so it has good space + scenery

6. End the date with a smoothie and car ride there Robeks, cause you gotta re-energize for what might happen next.

So what you all think, should I add anything, remove something, any ideas hint or comments. Thank you!

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2 questions

1 how old are you?
2. what are you trying to accomplish?

Well first off age has nothing to do with it, I took a girl out on a date when I was 12, but if it helps with your decision to yes it is or no it isn't then I am 18 1/4, as for the reasons, well I tell myself I am a man of romanticism, I like to take girls out on dates? I hope to gain some sort of relationship, whether it be gf + bf, fwb, or that girl I call when I just need a fix, or even a girl I just like to hang out with. I take girls out on dates just for fun sometimes, why cause rather than sitting and doing nothing or close to nothing, I can be enjoying myself with other people.

So yea, good date or not?

Edit: not trying to be a dick at all, damn that came off as an asshole talking, just some annoying chick bothering me as I am typing this, but yea I do appreciate your opinion, I have read some of your responses and did recognize your name when you posted, so was happy to hear a response.

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If I didn't think it wasn't important, i wouldn't have asked you.

Right well was a douchey thing, so nonetheless what is your opinion on the actual date itself?

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-Raphael

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Were you hungry while typing? I think there's a lot of food and drinks on the date. Personally I try not to smell like crepes, coffee and fries while I'm with some guy I like. I'm also not big on going shopping, I do this with my normal friends. But going to several parcs is great for building comfort, you always have stuff to talk about and you can touch her.

Keep it simple, go to a restraunt or cafe then the movies or something along these lines! On this date your jumping around to many different locations which I believe will slow down the comfort level of your date. If you stay in one setting longer she will get use to the place/setting and yourself.

GoodLuck !

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There is absolutely no checklist you have to top when you go on a date. This to me looks way overdone btw.

I love a long walk round my hometown and through the city park. Walking is excellent for building comfort.

I didn't clarify what my time slot was so this might be confusing. I want 30mins - 1hr crepes (and crepes freshly made smell amazing )

Then walk to park sit there for 15-25mins depending if I am cold or not, I mean if shes cold my bad where are my manners.

Then mall for 2 hrs, then quick fries stop till then walk like 5 mins to the park near this store. And then here for 30 mins and then drive to robeks, probably so I can pick one up for my sisters as well as my mum. Cause I am nice like that! and it shows I am big on family.

So the point I am making is long mini-dates get her more comfortable with me, and different spots make it seem like different dates altogether, secondly food is a great comfort thing. As children when we are scared angry etc... food calms us down, ever heard of a ben and jerry's night (girls only I hope) or when a chick is pissed she just eats that bag of chips. Food = Comfort, I am not saying fatten her up for the stew later on, lets be real shes burning off those calories when we walking ahah

Edit: Anyways, I forgot to thank you all for your opinions. I will definitely try and implement some of your ideas, maybe removing the fries since it is greasy and such, or increasing the time we stay at the parks (or the path I take - make it longer).

The lovely part about this date is the proximity, everything is very close to each other.

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-Raphael

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Women don't tend to eat that much while near attractive men. Food=comfort when women are alone, with unattractive guys or with female friends while talking shit about ex boyfriends.

I am going to have to disagree with you from personal experience, I might have overdone the food thing in my date I mentioned above, and have taken note of such, but when I grab coffee with a chick or a smoothie we end of also grabbing a small thing and possibly even lunch or dinner depending on the time. It could be cause I am younger and well not experienced with older females, but as of now, I have gone on dates on during them gone to get food. Ironically, I am very conscious when I eat on a date, I hate eating in front of woman cause I never can enjoy the meal, and yes this implies using my fingers, licking them, and truly making a disaster of my meal, we all have been there so no judgements!!

Like I said previously, I really appreciate the responses, I have taken out the fries stop, they are so good though haha yummy, I will just go to the park and I will insinuate them and if she wants well grab if not then nope.

Anyways, Nadine to be honest I have no idea if you are a female, I assuming you are just cause of your name, so with that said, what are some interesting things to do on a date in your opinion. If you are a male, what have you done that has gotten positive feedback. Mind you I rather not spend 100$ + on a date, my dates cost roughly 25-50 (at the most 50)

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I enjoy the basic stuff. For a first date with a talkative girl I go to a neutral café (can you just have drinks somewhere at age 18 where you live? I'm not sure) for just drinks.
Going to parcs, watching a movie (cinema or, when I would like sex, at home). When comfortable around him, I invite him over for dinner. Eating some food is fine, but the other person should be the main event in my opinion. So money is not that important, when you go to a large concert for example, the band is the main event and you still didn't get to know the girl.
These are all cheap options. Seeing bands in parcs is also great. I'm an easy talker, so for me every random place is fine. When you might need the topics, going to see something I think is better. The beach is always great.