Ok this was a direct approach with a girl in person i can talk to girls get them laughing have a banter an its all good text game is getting on my nerves i hate it wish i was born in my prime in the 80s when it didnt exsist.


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ME · 12:36Hey had to come over an chat to you yesterday, would of been gutted if a sexy girl walked past an i let you go by how are you anyway ?

HB 23:09Hahah aww thankyou, im not too bad, bit hungover but a good sleep will do me over haha, how are you?


ME · 10:02your welcome would of stayed longer but didnt want to leave my friend on his own well me im hungover, lost my voice from singing random bloody xmas songs at the top of my voice in clubs haha an now im just waiting on xmas dinner, Pigs in blankets ..... carnt bloody wait. You get what you wanted of santa ?

HB· 18:06ahah understandable ahh same i feel so grim, swear i have like a 2 hour hangover! had a beaut of a christmas meal! and i did thankyouu did you?
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ME · 13:53Mainly got money, aftershave, an a few clothes went out partying again last night an my head is so sore this mornin ha turn into an alcoholic over xmas, heres my number xxxxxx xxxxxx lets meet up id like to get to no you proper



I didnt stay talkin long to this hb just quickly facebooked closed her as my friend was there an i went for a cig with him.
I really need help texting to me shit i find it hard to be witty im unintrested in it think its shite all together but im losing so many girls all i want off texting is to set up a date asap, I have loads of girls on facebook an i open none on there i get more anxiety sending a text or a fb message than i do going up to a random girl on the street an chating to her help me please guys i really need this sorting

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Oh anyway i can get this girl out for a drink or somethin i hear all the ones like say your goin out with your friends an you want her to come along.

Personally i dont see how it can work 1 i wouldnt be with my friends i do best with girls 1 on 1 i hate groups my confidence aint no where near as good 1 on 1 its amazin.

An why would she want to meet aload of randoms my facebook pics you can tell im not a loner or out have loads of friends loads of pics with hb.

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Well the texts do seem boring, theres nothing entertaining about em, they are stuff I'd honestly send my mom, except I would still probably make more jokes about how shit faced I was and that she should get me some chicken soup...

The reason I am telling you that is because I feel comfortable and know I can say what ever I want, no doubt I will get smacked, but who cares. Point is, you don't seem confident in yourself. When a girl asks you what you got for xmas you say money? I'd tell that answer to some chick who I have no interest for, what I'd tell to a chick I want to impress - use some humour.

I was given some nunchucks, I didnt tell you this but I am a part-time vigilante, somewhat like SPAM, except I'm not a multi-millionaire, but I did get some cash, Santa had some extra in his piggy bank, must have felt like I was in need, hey I wont complain. I think eh thinks I'm homeless, he also gave me some clothing, and aftershave. I'm not so sure but I think Santa is gay for me, don't tell the children though, it will ruin everything.

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Thanks for the advice yeah it does seem alot better an i know its super boring an like you say im extremley unconfident when it comes to texts in person i say anythin, shit like im goin to take u down a ally way tonight an smash you from behind.

in texts differnt person i just find it hard to do what you have done there but i shall use it as a draft an try improve it its only a skill so sure it can be learned

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They're long, they're needy, they're not worth reading. Sorry dude, but maybe you need to be more selective about your texting.

"Well hey there [name]"
"Whatever"
"It was a pleasure to meet you yesterday"
"Whatever"
"I want to see you again. What's your number?"

Keep it simple and short with a sexual twist. This is honestly a good basic template to follow for the start. As you get to know her better you can get a feel for what she wants to hear from you.

I see now exactly where i was going wrong they our boring i find it hard to connect being humorous and setting up a meet.

I can get plenty of practise texting as i meet like 5 new girls a week to practice on but these texting problems have been going on for about 2years i did better when i was afc.

So from now on ill have to add humor to them im a pretty funny guy aswell just a lazy bastard who sees no intrest in texting/talking on phone in person i enjoy it an i can get away with alot more facial expressions body language etc.

Any decent texting ebooks about i read one but tbh i thought it was crap.

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Honestly practice makes perfect, I like you was abetter pua as an AFC but I am starting from scratch and learning what needs to be done to become the best. With that said texting or aim or w.e has always been a strong suit.

What you got to do is practice. I seriously Facebook a girl daily, just to get a date, a reply, anything to work my charm. Who cares, worst scenario you lose a friend, best scenario, you gain a new fuck buddy...

If you are bored with texting, then she isn't worth your time is she? Did you see my post, it was fucking ridiculous, I have crazy fun with it, last night I VC with two random girls and we spoke for 2 hrs, not once did I care what they said. I just had fun, I played a lying game with them, and gave ridiculous answers and every time they laughed... who doesn't love the funny guy. Lets be real, would you rather fuck the queen of england in her prime or Robin williams today... there's no need to lie we all know its the latter.

Just have fun with texting, go all out and dont even care its like AA but for a phone?

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Dead on. Text/chat are used to build a little comfort, flirt, but mainly get a girl out. Double entendres are great for sexual twist.

Personally, I would say this: Stop Texting

Seriously, take a look around this forum. You need to call girls initially, don't text. Anyone can send a text message, it takes at least a little bit of balls to call a girl.

Now, I have had girls that I have called, talked to, and then they text me and because they seem more comfortable texting I will use that in the future. But initially you need to be different than other guys. This girl probably gets loads of texts, but very little calls (as is our culture these days).

You will find it much easier to connect emotionally with someone on a call then in a text. Not to mention, it is much harder to say the words no, then it is to type them.

Also, keep your calls short and to the point. This is not a social event. "Hi, this is blah, we met at blah when I did that cool thing blah you liked so much. chit chat....Hey I only got a minute, but why don't we meet up and do xxxxx."

Leave them wanting more Don't give it all away in a text or on the phone man, or she won't have a reason to see you!

Give it a try, call a girl and ask her out...show some courage, don't hide behind a glorified IM.

Leave your texts short and sweet and arrange a meeting asap.

"Hey I wanted to text you because i'm driving right now but my buddy just invited me to such and such and maybe you would like to tag along?"


this doesn't have to be honest, just use the buddy as an excuse to set up a date without it seeming like a date. when she shows up just say your buddy flaked but you didn't want to break plans..


or better yet, break plans and use some excuse that will DHV and then set up another date for the two of you.

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See there's something i don't quite understand about text game. My view of it is to have her number so you can arrange to meet up and talk. I see so many guys out there just glued to texting on their phones, I'm not seeing the need for it. Why would you prefer texting a girl throughout all hours of the day instead of talking in person where you can observe her real body language instead of trying to interpret it through emotions on bbm for example (I like bbm myself, i abuse the heck out of those emotions when i text the only 2 girls i have on my contact list out of the 34 contacts i have). Maybe I am missing something here on text game, someone fill me in if they can please and thanks!

As you can see i'm no expert on text game but what i really like to do is use is intrigue. Saying stuff to hold her interest like "heyy, i seen something today that reminded me of you : )". I love it! it keeps her chasing! therefore eliminating the bordem that can occur in a text conversation. Anyway i'm not in any position to give advice but i just wanted to share that with you.

This is awesome, after texting that I'd be pissed about not being able to see her face when she reads it hahaha

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you know i hear the quietest girls are the kinkiest


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ahahsorry didnt realise youd replied to the other message, notifications are messed up on my phone! youve probs heard wrong




Ok i sent the same girl as above this i saw it somewhere an thought fuck it ill try it i got this respone from her an im sure she did see my last msg to her im just wonderin what i can get back she saw my message but she aint gave me her digits any tips im clueless with text if i can get her num i can ring then an it will be alot easier cheers

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