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PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 7:47 pm 
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What are good combinations of routines, the ones that logicaly follow each other, so it feels more like normal communication and not presentation of different scripted BS.

For instance

Who lies more...
Who lies better...
Are you a good lier?
5 questions game
4 questions routine (millionaire, jacusy, big 25 sm penis, gay)

is this good?

WHAT can be used after those as follow ups?

How can i insert multiple threads while presenting this material, so it would be easier to start a normal conversation after?

Can you provide your field tested examples of other routine combinations?

Any comments would be really appreciated


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Shit, doc, that's kinda cool in a sick way actually. Was the girl obsessed with you after you ran the pattern?
Ehh... She was obsessed with me before all of that. Mostly she just got super nervious wgen it came to the combo of Me and Doors, lol. Evidentally doors in general don't bother her... just when they are combined with me.

Dangerous pattern, and I definately wouldn't use it again... even though now I have the expertise to break an anchor like that if I set it, still not worth it.

Now the rose/box pattern is another forbiddin pattern that I would consider using if I were to get married at some point... but overall I'm not a big fan of SS patterns, I more use NLP from the therepudic side.


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Waddup Doc? What books or web sites would you recommend to someone who is serious about learning NLP in depth?


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sweet thanks dude.
so not sure iv heard conflicting things.
basically all my mates the chicks they are going out with they asked them out but should u do that? and if so how would u do it?


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What are good combinations of routines, the ones that logicaly follow each other, so it feels more like normal communication and not presentation of different scripted BS.

For instance

Who lies more...
Who lies better...
Are you a good lier?
5 questions game
4 questions routine (millionaire, jacusy, big 25 sm penis, gay)

is this good?

WHAT can be used after those as follow ups?

How can i insert multiple threads while presenting this material, so it would be easier to start a normal conversation after?

Can you provide your field tested examples of other routine combinations?

Any comments would be really appreciated
I don't really use routines... I mean maybe I'll through in 1 or 2 here and there just for fun... but overall I don't stack routines.

For multipe threads you just stop talking about your subject and move to a new one... I get called random alot... and it's always a good thing.


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Waddup Doc? What books or web sites would you recommend to someone who is serious about learning NLP in depth?
Awaken the Giant Within- Anthony Robbins

If you read and apply that book, it will have an unbelievable positive effect on your entire life, pick-up included. I'd start with that then move on to the origional work on NLP. Frogs into Princes - Bandler and Grinder.


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sweet thanks dude.
so not sure iv heard conflicting things.
basically all my mates the chicks they are going out with they asked them out but should u do that? and if so how would u do it?
Going out with as in on a date? Or as in a girlfriend? By asking out do you mean saying "will you be my girlfriend?"

Also how old are you? Because IMO the answer to this question is very age dependant.


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Thanks for the suggestions, Doc; I'll be sure to buy those two books. They'll definitely strengthen my inner game, but I also want to become a master of manipulation (not extreme shit like the Door pattern) and persuasion. Will those two books or any NLP books that you know of help me in those two areas? Or, should I just rely on Speed Seduction for this?


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Hey Doc
I've got a question for you:
Next week im going to be on a meeting for a college thing. Its only restricted to 50 people or something and my buddy and me got a spot in there. The thing is: from a previous meeting i know, that there are many HBs and some with whom i started some conversation.

Next week me and my buddy will try to hit on them ;)
As he cant read english, he doesnt know anything about all this stuff so its up to me.

I thought of something like this: Opinion opener ( I think a simple Hi is too simple :D I use the Hi opener on CA and the Opin. opener on ppl i have something in common with like on same party etc. ), then a little neg hit, some C&F, Eyecontact of course, and the ring analysis. ( no i didnt read the game if you are wondering i just read some of this stuff in this board. )

What do you think about this? Of course we are 2 guys on 3 Girls but i think we will be fine :)

Edit: ah and i forgot: Or should i wait till the seminar in a hotel starts? With everything paid for us?


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Hey doc I'd love your advice about this situation. It keeps happening so I need to intervene soon! lol.

immediate-help-needed-balls-required-vt20968.html


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Hey Doctor, I got a question for ya. There is one thing that I always have a hard time with.....breaking up with girls I'm not interested in. Thing is, after dating for a few and getting sexually intimate, If I'm no longer interested in a woman, I would like to break it off without any hurt feelings.

Well, I have the most difficult time telling a woman that "I'm not interested in a relationship" without any feelings being hurt. The whole not answering calls and ignoring them is not something I want to do anymore. How do you think I should approach this?


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OK Doctor i know im just a newbie but i need help with women and its says to 'Ask the Doctor'.
I have this Double Date thing coming up next week that a friend and his GF set up for me with one of the GFs friends, ive met her before and she was a bit nervous but thats not the point. Do you have(or does any one have) ideas techniques or whatever, to make her mine yet not going over the top whilst with the other couple and make a fool of myself in front of them. Just things to make her want to talk to me or something. I dont know.....i think you probly see what i mean by the situation i just cant think of what to say or how to deliver it. HELP ME DOCTOR!


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Here...

Opened strong with a 10, good second meeting, but lost some game when I showed a little too much interest in the last 20 minutes or so, and things seems to take a step back. Fully believe I can get it back, just need some advice on how.

Also, I love that orange tie.


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Alright. heres the deal. I have game, im very polished, im attractive, im confident, im clever. I can get the girls i want, im very good at creating attraction. But i have a huge problem. i CAN NOT go in for the kill. i was lucky enough to run into david deangelo's stuff when i was 14 so ive got the material and the swagger. But since i was that young i took some of it in the wrong way. i thought that you shouldnt show ANY interest at all. And ive had this thought dug into my deep inner game for a long time.

so whenever its crunch time. im alone with the girl, weve been clicking all night, its time for some action. I just cant go for it. I pussy out. When i know its time to make the move i get extremely nervous and even tell myself that i dont want to get it on tonight and try to get out of there as soon as possible. I feel that if i act like i wanna get some shell think thats all i want and reject me. I suppose a fear of rejection is also a factor in this dilema. the worse part about this is I KNOW THATS NOT HOW IT IS. i know that women like being pursued, i know they like it when you show interest. I cant get over this hump. Hell ive had a lot of prospects over the last year. All hot girls that were into me but i just couldnt make that final move. there was a mental wall there. The only girl ive gotten with is my last girlfriend who was very very straight forward with the fact that she liked me and basically told me to ask her out.

So, i need some help. Do you have any advice to get through this mental wall? any exercises or mental checklists for this specific problem? its killing me. I see how much of a pussy im being but i cant help it, its embedded into the bedrock of my personality.


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so whenever its crunch time. im alone with the girl, weve been clicking all night, its time for some action. I just cant go for it. I pussy out. When i know its time to make the move i get extremely nervous and even tell myself that i dont want to get it on tonight and try to get out of there as soon as possible. I feel that if i act like i wanna get some shell think thats all i want and reject me. I suppose a fear of rejection is also a factor in this dilema. the worse part about this is I KNOW THATS NOT HOW IT IS. i know that women like being pursued, i know they like it when you show interest. I cant get over this hump. Hell ive had a lot of prospects over the last year. All hot girls that were into me but i just couldnt make that final move. there was a mental wall there. The only girl ive gotten with is my last girlfriend who was very very straight forward with the fact that she liked me and basically told me to ask her out.

So, i need some help. Do you have any advice to get through this mental wall? any exercises or mental checklists for this specific problem? its killing me. I see how much of a pussy im being but i cant help it, its embedded into the bedrock of my personality.
I have this same kind of problem in not being able to close the deal...interested in what advice the Doc has.


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