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She claims she's busy Blah nlah. Told her ass to take the dog to her parents if she can't handle the responsibility to which she says "shut up", " hop of my dick", "I've been busy"
Serious? This is the girl that you felt was a great candidate for a relationship?
If she's talking to you like that theres no respect at all(and a woman can not love a man she doesn't respect. So theres no love either; regardless of what she says or what you may think); and if you're still abiding by the rules and care for the opinion of someone that doesn't respect you at all you're being more immature than she is.
You're doing too much talking and not taking enough action and decision making. If I were you I would of took the shit to storage myself the next morning just for the threat.
I'm a lil shocked to be honest.. I thought you were a bit tougher than this.
This does go to show that just because a man can get laid it doesn't mean he has actual pull with women. Getting laid is the easy part. The fundamentals every man needs to learn comes a little after he bust his nut. Hence the reason I wrote my book.
So before you're ready to actually move on to a new relationship you have to learn how to take charge and make the strong decisions in the moment while under pressure. Sometimes you'll make the wrong one, because its unplanned - sure. But the assertion will always be respected whether right on wrong. You'll have respect and thus love, even when your unplanned actions lead to mistakes.
She damn sure didn't mind blowing up on your without thinking twice or planning it. How is your respect to her sporadicalness.. " I need to plan first".. Come on bro.
Your entire response was a collection of excuses you were making for yourself just because you didn't do what you were suppose to. Step up, take the responsibility and make the change man. The stars won't always be aligned, but you still have to take action.
You're being manipulated and controlled even after the relationship.. So is there any surprise why this ended?
There a host of reasons for my lack of adultness as I call it. But we will talk about my other problems some other time.
She wasn't like this in the beginning, which is why I am more surprised and disappointing. But I don't care anymore. You are right, somewhat. I am making excuses but I mean i guess the pressure will do me some good and get me focused on the change.
I told her what you said... she laughed "bahaha, just you know I want my furniture.
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"You can have whoever you want over when you have your own bed"
I told her she better get to moving her furniture then. I am having them over regardless.
You know what though, Eddie, I had one of my multiple relationship girls do something really fucking worthy of a next. I texted her last night, and she didn't text back...she never does that. Then she texts me the next morning saying "I just watned to make a point that I don't like to be ignored blah blah, it was hard to ignore you". Blatantly ignored me...just to prove a point...
I didn't have a problem handling that. I told her that her point was pointless and that I have been busy ^^^ with work and everything. then told her later k. Bye.
She really shaped up quickly after that..I need to keep that attitude up.
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