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It raises attraction but not sexual tension... You just put her on her toes so it increases her interest, doesn't necessarily make her want to fuck you.. Wit without kino will not get you laid, but on the other hand, kino without wit will..
There are guys that are not witty or intelligent, that bang more women than the most witty guy you know...
Witty banter is never ending, there is an higher approach to all of this and that is to be above it, if you want to play into a womens little games, you go ahead... I'll be having sex in the nearest nook while your telling jokes.
Can you elaborate as to how "it raises attraction, but not sexual tension"? A lot of PUAs bandy this about, but there's never any coherent explanation as to how humour does one, but not the other.
I agree with you on the kino, but that's a whole other conversation as this conversation, to my understanding, is strictly concerning verbal interaction (e.g. texting, sexting, online chat, etc.).
Witty banter can be never-ending, and this is where you would certainly kino, again, assuming you're face-to-face with the girl which is a completely different matter to the one we're discussing.
You'd have to be a complete moron, or just socially aloof to keep the witty retort back-n-forth to infinitude. I should hope if one is smart enough to engage in witty retort, that he'd also have the foresight to know when to take the communication in a different direction.
I'd never rely on verbal interaction alone if I have the girl in my presence.
Humor is used to defuse awkward moments(tension)
I'm sure you are attracted to the funny guy who always has a ton of jokes, however, im sure you don't want to sleep with the guy. Attraction doesn't have a gender..
Attraction and sexual tension are not the same thing at all, and a basic definition could define that.
Nobody here was suggested that. I simply asked for some clarity on how humor raises attraction, but not sexual attention - other than something than regurgitating non-explanations taken from PUA handbooks.
Now, attraction can be shifted into sexual tension when things like kino are involved, meaning the attraction didn't have to be there in the first place.
This is a contradiction; you say on the one hand seduction process can be expedited through attraction, and then saying attraction need not be involved at all. *head scratch*
Women sleep with men they aren't attracted to all the time..
Seduction does occur, but at some level she is in fact attracted to him, although she may not admit to it as by doing so she'd be lowering her own perceived value ("OMG me be attracted to him?!? I CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER!"). Ya, she slept with him, but rest assured she was also attracted to him. Again, PUA 'authors' love telling stories of how the FROG got the princess, just to fill unattractive guys with a false sense of confidence. Looks matter, they aren't the whole story but if a woman is not attracted to you, even in the slightest, you'll have a better chance penetrating a rock with your dick than seducing her.
I was talking to this shallow model at a fashion show on Saturday and she was telling me about her boyfriend, her exact words, " I don't like him, im no even attracted to him, he's just good in bed"
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