4 days is rapidly...ok.You realize that this is a really bold statement, right? I know a lot of guys that are good with women and I do pretty well...but saying that a girl will follow your lead 100% of the time because you tell them what you want is unheard of. If that's the case, you are my new hero.

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Holy shit, I misread op then, but I still would do the same.
Let's rephrase it then, showing decisiveness and lack of "asking for permission"ess increased my results an awful lot.

Have to say I started doing that very lately (I actually read it when I signed up on this forum one month ago) and I have a small sample pool (4) but it seems to work wonders.

Now im confused. I was going to send her a message in 2 days (same day im planning to going to party) like:

"I am going to the center to taking a drink in a cafe at 22:00, come with me"

But now I am confused. Its true that she lost attraction after hangover, but I am assuming she gave me 8-10 by my proofile pic, which is highly probably. Birtish usually give me good marks while in other places I got 5-6.

So I think that being direct must work for some reasons:

1) she gives me a good mark and she can fantasy

2) she is getting back to his country in some weeks so she wouldnt mind having a fuck before getting back, cause I think she didnt fuck here (i hope she didnt get back already, cause I have no clue and dont want to message askjing that)

3) Prolly she has bf there, but she wont mind to cheat him, cause she is far away

I don't want you to get me wrong. I wasn't saying it as a criticization and that it can't be done and shouldn't be used most of the time. My point is that you have to be socially savvy when you are using some techniques. If you would still do things the same way, that's fine because success or failure isn't guaranteed either way. OP, the best thing that you can do is learn from this experience without worrying too much on the outcome. You can try to send your message and hope the best comes from it. If you don't want to use any smalltalk(comfort), then don't do it. Just take however it turns out as a learning experience. Drop your list of reasons on why being direct will work. Most of it is a waste of energy for you to worry about.

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what do u recommend me for a small talk? Taking into account she took 4 days to reply, I am not sure... well I aam thinking of this: today foreigners use to going party, perhaps she waited to reply till today cause she was waiting that I invited her to going out tonight? so perhaps she looks me as a pleasure partner xD

I recommend you do it if you are comfortable doing it. The more natural you are in your communication, the more congruent you are. If I were to do it, I'd make fun of how drunk that you guys both were when you met but still managed to have a good time. That's putting her on the same page with you by acknowledging the alcohol and still keeping it light and positive. From there I'd lead it into going out with me if a natural, organic conversation starts.

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Hmm I missed the party.

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That's what I ws trying to say and I agree with JackZero. Do what YOU prefer and are comfortable with. Get detached from the outcome as no matter what you say or do, how good looking you are, ecc, ecc, you'll get plenty of rejections. So focus on learning a game that fits yourself. Because chances are you're going to be dumped no matter how you play it.