im experimenting with a theory here...i am withdrawing on all feelings that make her feel special to me
but maintaining the strictly sexual frame

taking longer to engage her texts, not reciprocating when she calls me by my pet name

she is definitely chasing me a bit more , wondering why im so distant today, mentioning a lot of "we" statements, talking about traveling the world with me, "i dont like when youre in this mood"

i can tell she feels a bit punished by me going colder, whether itll backfire on me im not sure..she may be able to read through my spite

whether shes learning anything from this or not i wont know until next monday, but as of now i am framing her as just a fuck buddy

I can tell your attitude is much better than since the last time we talked, but you still don't know if she is seeing other guys.

You can always tell her what the expectations are...if she is the type of girl that is smarter than the average doe

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not sure what you mean here

As in tell her you are fuck buddies.

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just another update, yesturday was monday and yet again she went missing in action at 8pm midway into a text conversation we were having, she just vanished... so yes she is up to something, this pattern is too repetitive

then texted me this bright and early this morning, seemingly to cover ground



seem like guilty replies right?
its just not regular for her to skip saying goodnight and yada yada...pattern every monday night

theres a caveat here, she is a drinker and i know she enjoys getting drunk... i personally do not drink (for health/fitness reasons, and my family is littered with serious alcoholics). being that its always a monday and it seems so regular, maybe its not another guy.... maybe shes got a habit of going out to party every monday and she just wants to hide it from me to look stronger.

i dont mind when women drink, 99% of them do , but perhaps she gets the vibe that i think she has a problem. nonetheless, she is afraid to ever talk about alcohol use with me, i never bring it up, she never brings it up. however if a chick makes it a point to always go out to a bar every week while im not there, i can not trust her internally.

shes starting to catch on that im angry and blunt about it, shes asking if she did something to make me upset.i dont know if i should reply or just keep playing dumb here


mind you here are examples of conversations from the previous few weeks.... i am dominating her in bed, im playing my cards right here, and she continues to chase. i feel i give her no need to stray but deep in my gut i feel shes hiding something from me








she makes it pretty clear i more than exceed her sexual desires, not just thru text.
but i still cant help but question this situation

you guys have been helpful. more opionions appreciated. thanks

Own your women like Lord and King!

Next time she's on her knees with your dick in her mouth, grab a fist full of hair and SAY; "Who's slut are you Diana? Who's slut are YOU?"

As far as HER disappearing acts?

Her whereabouts and actions are trivial to yours.

Always be ready to walk away from the relationship at any time for any reason. If she acts up, be ready to walk. She'll catch the vibe.

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hey guys shes continued to do this on mondays since,

not every monday, but most of them

ive since decided to buckle down and make her my girlfriend... she was very happy that finally happened. being extra lovey dovey and great sex all weekend.

she did it yet again this monday after weve made our relationship officially commited...

how and when do i bring this up to her, it fucking bothers the shit out of me...but i dont want to come of like a pussy....

were planning a vacation to south america soon and things are great between us....but shes not being completely transparent so i need to know how to get her to come clean and not look like im needy

ive considered cheating on her just to save face, but being i dont even know her situation i dont want to do that