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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 9:23 pm 
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Wow, bro.

Wow.

You're being extremely clingy and needy with a girl you haven't dated.

She owes you nothing.

She could fuck literally every guy on this forum if she wanted to.

You're acting like you're the one who is keeping her at fuckbuddy status. It sounds like she is keeping you there, and potentially offering you girlfriendhood in exchange for a cheap place to stay. And by "girlfriend" I mean, girl who fucks you occasionally but is also fucking others behind your back.

Maybe she'd like you more if you weren't so super paranoid and giving a fuck who she sleeps with.

You don't get to demand her to not sleep with anyone. You two aren't exclusive.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 9:24 pm 
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Hey Mate, I live in the UK as well and I'm European.

Why does she need a visa to stay in the UK if she is European. I'm guessing she is Eastern European correct me if I'm wrong. Typical case where the girl uses the guy as a provider. I know this from experience.

She doesn't want you to be her boyfriend. If she did, she would have mentioned this before already.

However if you want her to be your girlfriend you should tell her that. If she doesn't agree then walk, because to me it's clear that you want things to be exclusive. Any other situation you'll get hurt, she'll find another provider for her.

The landlord excuse is not necessarily BS btw, my landlord wouldn't let me have my girlfriend staying at my place so it's not uncommon here.
hiya. this girl is from eastern europe. but i would say she didn't use me at the beginning. we pay separately. there was one time she paid 20 pounds for our movie tickets. she has gone through a lot of shit after she arrived. she lost her job recently, and she almost have to return to her own country.

i know what she was thinking. her ex colleague is from her country. so she might think that it's better to invest in him. if she is not staying in england, there is no point of having a serious relationship with me. i respect her choice. and i won't invest in her :D

well, she is offering to pay me half the rent. but i am not too comfortable to live with her after what happened last week. it is true that my landlord doesn't like people to stay over. i could always break the rule if i want to. just not for this girl :D


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 9:52 pm 
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Wow, bro.

Wow.

You're being extremely clingy and needy with a girl you haven't dated.

She owes you nothing.

She could fuck literally every guy on this forum if she wanted to.

You're acting like you're the one who is keeping her at fuckbuddy status. It sounds like she is keeping you there, and potentially offering you girlfriendhood in exchange for a cheap place to stay. And by "girlfriend" I mean, girl who fucks you occasionally but is also fucking others behind your back.

Maybe she'd like you more if you weren't so super paranoid and giving a fuck who she sleeps with.

You don't get to demand her to not sleep with anyone. You two aren't exclusive.
i won't deny the fact that i am possessive.

have you watched a movie called "Alfie"? Jude Law is a manwhore in the movie. He was fucking different young, attractive women. towards the end of the movie he hooked up with a rich guy's wife. he lost his temper when he realized she was sleeping with another men. i mean that lady was somebody else's wife. he shouldn't really give a damn.

at least i didn't lose my temper. i just walked away.


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