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PostPosted: Fri Aug 30, 2013 8:29 am 
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be friends with him but don't go out to meet girls with him, find new supportive friends to do that with.
Simple as that really. I have different groups of friends for different occasions... party friends, wingmen etc ...
Yeah, I think most of us have different groups we do different things with. The thing about my mate is he's the one who got me into PU. He went hard, got results but no closes and went above and beyond, getting way too ahead of himself.

The frustrating thing is he's actually not a bad looking guy and you can have a lot of fun with him. He could open, keep conversations going to an extent and wasn't afraid to approach and open but his SP was transitioning from opening to mid game. Then he turned to different types of game before completely giving up.

It sounds like hes afraid you are going to succeed where he failed. The dude must man up!

There's times he's into a chick and you just know he wants to get somewhere with them but he gets in the way of himself. He won't just go with it no matter how much of a fool he thinks i'll make of myself, he'll just refuse right out and if he does get near he'll just say something awkward and inappropriate. It won't be inappropriate in a confident non-perverted way, it will just be weird and not deliberately "Haha" weird but just weird. I think he needs to reassess his personality around women. He can open, he can be fun but it's almost as if he can not mentally connect with a woman or even take the time to ask the most simple of questions of her.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 30, 2013 11:16 am 
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Be a fucking leader and stop blaming other people.

If you see 3 girls go approach them alone.

If he grabs you away "stop him" and return to the conversation you were having with the girls. This isn't his fault, this is yours. Take responsibility and use this as an opportunity to grow. There are always going to be obstacles in the way of us getting with women but it is our job to figure out a way to deal with it. We don't cry, complain, and let it effect us.


Besides, if your friend is determining you success with women he's the Alpha male of the group.. Don't you think?
I like this mindset.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 30, 2013 6:09 pm 
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I would find a new friend


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 31, 2013 7:23 am 
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i had that kind of friend. in the end we stopped being friends. not because of him but because i didn’t like his friends.
women and friends are two different things. there are different rules.
bros before hoes. i’ve heard that before. but really men aren’t brothers. and women aren’t whores. a few are prostitutes that do it to get money for drugs cause they already have nothing to sell at home for drugs. really the way people think is i before everyone else.
partners in pua is really a bit different from friends. the person that i would really want to go out with is a coach.


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